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female
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30-35,
*enaUnique
writes:why does it seem like every time i like a guy he likes my closest friend?? it happens to me all the time and i really do hate it.i am not ugly i have a nice and slim body but everytime i like someone he likes the girl NEXT to me..and then guys i dont like, like me and they are either not my type or very ugly.so when i like some body they don't like me and when i dont like them they like me...whats up with that?!! oh and sometimes its the older older men that like me not men in their 20's..more then that..but why?!!!! and eeew im not gonna go out wit some one older guy like that! but can someone explain to me...why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): Yes, since the age of 14 i have always had older men after moi, ewww! I hate it. I do look older than my age but come on, it just takes the piss. I am now 20 and i get men in their late early 40's gawking and trying to talk sweet to me. OAP's! (chokes a little) It is twisted, demoralizing, embarrasing, just WRONG!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007): Believe me i know exactly what you are going through. The same thing happens to me too. But yeah what i think you should do is to go up to this guy that you like and just talk to him. Tell him how you really feel about him. Thats one of the only ways you will know. If you dont atleast give it a try you could go on never knowing if he likes you back. I know that they say that the girl needs to let the guy make the first move, but you know what screw that theory its the 21 century. Get the guts up and talk to him!!! Even if he doesnt feel the same about you its not the end of the world, its just a sign telling you to move on and not let this one little thing bother you. Your a woman and you are strong. I know you can do this!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): Thats exactly right, its familiar and thats safe. you have someone looking at you, with your self description I would be, and you have this dilusion that you cant live without someone. that very mindset is your real problem, you will live untill you find someone who actualy likes women. It sounds like your friends are getting picked up around you at parties or otherwise sex assembly lines where the relationship ends the same night it begins. if you are jealous of your friends take a solid look at the relationships you are so jealous that they are having, fleeting and rushed. you dont want that. just relax and you'll notice the guys who are looking at you, and you can decide if thats the life you realy want. good luck
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