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writes:I am 21 - well past puberty.I had a relationship 4 years ago where I fell in love but wasn't loved back. Since then i've been afraid of relationships and haven't really dated.I am finally in a relationship again with a girl I'm crazy about and who feels the same about me. The problem is that I get erections when I am with her or even so much as read an email from her or think about her. Specifically it is thoughts about how she feels about me rather than thoughts of sex that makes this happen.I've been able to hide it so far, but I need a way to fix this problem. I think this is an emotional issue that has developed from feeling unloved in the past.
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reader, W  +, writes (25 January 2007):
Sounds healthy. Seriously - you get turned on thinking of your new girlfriend. Never EVER be embarrassed about this! (Well, not unless you get an email from her when you're at work and you have to stand up, in which case I would suggest wearing a loose fitting shirt or jacket.) Enjoy it.Youth is SO wasted on the young...
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 January 2007):
 I don't think you're that different to any guy, except perhaps that you have a more active imagination so that when you think of her you become turned on as opposed to most guys who would probably need visual stimuli. I assume you want to stop this from an embarassment point of view and naturally I'm not the best person to advise you on this but most guys I know say they can keep it under control by thinking of something that turns them off, like their naked gran smothering herself in strawberry jam or something like that. If that doesn't work maybe your male friends could recommend some tactics.
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