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I never used to like porn but now I think it's ok. Should I tell my boyfriend about my change of heart?

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Question - (23 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2007)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok so i've been with my bf for almost 10 yrs. when we met i was just 16. I have always been against porno where on the other hand he likes it. We used to get into fights about him watching it because it made me feel inadequete.Although i told him i know its normal, its just not something i like. So i dealt with it by telling him i'm ok with it only if i don't know about it or have to see it whatsoever. Now this is my prob: now that i'm older im starting to like it a bit.. i mean nothimg hardcore but a little soft core porn. I would totally feel uncomfortable watching it with my bf after all these years of saying how discusting it is. Is it wrong of me to keep this a secret considering i don't wanna know what hes watching? Can't we both just keep this as somthing we enjoy seperatley?

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2007):

willywombat agony auntAs we get older so our tastes and beliefs can change. a personality is not set in stone, it develops and changes as well. So do our interests, likes and dislikes. I think if you told him he would be a little 'shocked' because of your past stance on this issue, but I don't think this would be a negative thing. Then you can both enjoy a little naughtiness together.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntI'm sure he would be absolutely delighted if you said you'd had a change of heart and were willing to watch some soft porn with him. It'd probably bring a real buzz to your relationship. Just make it clear that you still have rules. If something strikes you as wrong you're allowed to stop watching it and just because porn stars can do it he shouldn't expect you to.

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