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writes: I really want a boyfriend...I find it hard to get one at school and never really meet any guys when I'm out with the girls...a guy that i met on myspace has asked me to meet him and I want to because I think it may be one of the few chances I have...problem is, I'm really shy and I don't know what we could talk about! Please help, I need to know what to sort of do and say so I don't look like an idiot...thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): just go there and be yourself
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reader, cd206  +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Hi, first of all I'd say no to the myspace guy. However well you 'know' him and have seen pictures of 'him' he might be a creepy old man. Or he might not be, but if you're still in school this isn't a risk you can take. Try being friends with boys and then the rest comes easy. As for what to say on dates I always think of some things to talk about in advance in case we hit any awkward silences. Don't worry, a boyfriend will come along when you stop looking for him so hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): Listen, I was in your boat for a long time. Really wanting a boy/girlfriend can actually get in the way of finding one. You may be too anxious or move to fast and scare off guys that have potential. Or you may build things up in your mind and sike yourself out. also, as much as i hate the games out there, you are more likely to score a guy if you aren't so eager. Just show a great personality. Be fun and relax, but don't make the guy think this date is a marriage proposal.
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