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I really like this guy but I don't know if he's single. What do I do?

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Question - (23 January 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Since rodeo season is over i had to find another sport to keep me occupied until the summer... it ended up being hockey. I went to a few games, but since i can't drive (yet :P) i couldn't go to a whole lot. But i went to one last night and saw the most AMAZING guy... (he was gorgeous). So i got curious and went on their site and looked at the roster... he's gorgeous and his fave movie is the princess bride(it's also my fave)... what girl wouldn't love that? we have many other things in common too, he sounds like a total sweet heart. But now i think i'm infatuated with him... the game i went to was the last time he's going to be here this year, i don't know if he's single or not,and i don't even know if he'll be in the **HL next year.

So my options are forget about him because it's just lust or, or... i don't know. That's why i'm here, what should i do? I've talked to him a little (to get autographs) but i could barely look at him because he just kept smiling and it made me giddy... i'm so screwed... lol. what should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007):

he live in *******, (which is about 4-ish hours from where i live) so he's not really accesable and no one here knows that much about him. He's a good player, but i don't think he's getting drafted next year *crosses fingers* he's the kind of guy who likes to stay close to home. And he's not that much older than me, only 3 years. Thing is i fear if i don't do anything i'm going to wonder about it for life, but on the other hand i am EXTREMELY shy and don't know if i could get the courage to talk to him. But i need to know... :S

xoxo HockeyHottie oxox

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 January 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntRhythmandblues2 is right on the mark! Enjoy your crush it won't get any further than that I'm sure.

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A male reader, hopeless_teen_ United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2007):

If you want to find out if this guy is single or not without speaking to him directly then do some research. There's bound to be someone else who knows whether he is or not, ask around. Otherwise all I can suggest is to go for it, if this guy is making you giddy then you clearly like him. and besides we only live once ;)

Another option would be to wait and see if he is in the hockey league next year, in which case you can take your time, slowly get to know him better and then make a decision at a later date.

Its up to you really...

Anyway, Good luck :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007):

I think you are enjoying a crush on a older (?) good looking guy and you are fantasizing about all that you have in common and what that means.

It sounds like a lot of fun and a distraction for you, but I don't think it will go anywhere do you? He is not really accessible to you and you would do better finding a boyfriend closer to your own age and someone you can actually spend time with...

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