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female
age
36-40,
*at_21
writes:Hello, The other day me and my boyfriend were out and he wanted something to eat, I told him I didn't have alot of money on me and that I would eat when I got home. He looked at me and was like you can't be that broke and I was like yes I am. He didn't offer to pay for my food but instead took me home and he went to go get something to eat by himself.. Now the last few times we went out to eat I paid for him because he was low on money. I didn't mind it but now i'm to the point where I don't want to do Anything for him beacasue he wont do it for me. I need to know if my boyfriend is being cheap or just being a jerk to me. Thanks in thanks in advance for the answersand help ^_^
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reader, Mr. Don T Knowitall  +, writes (21 October 2011):
cheap or a jerk? Both.
He is definitely cheap. If he only had enough money to buy one meal he could have waited to get to your place or bought something and shared it with you. I can't believe he dropped you off and then went back. This speaks volumes to his selfishness and how little he cares about you, IMO, like he doesn't want you to spoil "his" meal. To eat it in front of you would have been worse, but this is pretty bad. I'd kick him to the curb, seriously. what a douchebag!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2011): He is mostly definately being both! Don't put up with being treated like that. He won't get better, only worse.
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