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*dwoa
writes:I have a guy for almost one year who lives with a woman in a single room whom he claims that the lady is his sister. There is a long distance between where he stays. He has been to my place twice and I've been to his place twice. My first time i went to his place that found out his sister sleeps in the same room with him for more than a year. His sister is having daughter is 11 months at that time whom she looks like him. Now one day i went to hospital with his and daughter and she asked me to hold her daughter's card for her, then i looked through the card and i found out that the name of husband is the same as my guy's name. Assume my guy's name is tom k---- k---- same as his sister's husband. I asked the lady she denied and man that is his name. He always ask for money from me and i have even gone for loan for him even this doesn't appreciate. The second time i went there i asked him to buy something for me on his way coming. When he returned he said he can't buy a thing for me without buying some for his sister because she'll be angry. He is always if he gets money he will a cool store for her. Who is the sister to him?
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reader, GuardianAngel  +, writes (20 October 2011):
 Sweetheart, that woman is definately not his sister you would not sleep in the same room as your sister he has more to do with her than he's letting on and you need to leave him do what's best for you be happy with an honest person and be honest with yourself you know he's lying do the right thing hunni x Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2011): Thats not his sister. He is only using u for money. Leave this loser!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 October 2011):
 who cares... is he treating you well? NO? they time to move on..
personally I'm willing to bet it's not his sister...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2011): She is not his sister, she is his wife or girlfriend and they have a baby together. Wake up! His name is on the card as the baby’s father! He sleeps with that woman in the same room! And they claim they are sister and brother! They are both taking advantage of you financially. Maybe she agreed about your relationship with this guy because of money. They will confess later but it will be too late for you ,financially and emotionally. Stop giving him any money and come up with some excuses like something has happened in your life and you need some financial helps yourself so when he make sure you can’t help anymore you will see what will happen next!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2011): first off, i struggled to understand whhat you were saying. But sounds like this guy is a loser....dump him.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (20 October 2011):
 Seems like it really doesn't matter who she is, the guy is a loser.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (20 October 2011):
 Does it really matter if this other woman is sister? No way we can proove it here for you.
If the circumstances are uncomfortable with a relationship with another woman around..get out!
It sounds like an unhealthy relationship where the man is taking advantage of your kindness. Something is not right there. Listen to your heart!
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