A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating guy A for a year and he is perfect in almost every way. I started dating him though after a breakup with a boyfriend of almost 5 years. There was no time in between for me to be single. Guy A is madly in love with me. We have talked about splitting a couple times and he got so incredibly upset. I love him SO much, but what if there is another path my life is supposed to take? Guy B is someone I dated 4 years ago and we were both very in love, but it was a long distance thing. We were very young so we broke up. Now that we are older, he wants to try again. I want to know where it could lead. Both guys spoil me, and treat me like a queen. Guy B sends me flowers and chocolates and things because he is deployed. Guy A (who I am currently dating) does anything I want and is happy to do it. He treats me like gold and I know he always will. Guy B has always said he wants to marry me. I just want to know which way is right. I can see either way working. Honestly. How do I choose? I am too nice to hurt anyone. Every time I think I am close to an answer, my brain rationalizes it too much. I need help. I don't want to be unfair or hurt anyone although I do realize it's already gotten to that point. I'm a mess.Side note:Guy A is less established, job future is very uncertainGuy B is in the military, has means to provideBoth are family oriented, but Guy B wants to start a family sooner and get married sooner.ugh!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 July 2011):
 You simply are not ready to settle down. You do know you don't HAVE to have an exclusive relationship at this point. That is entirely reason people need to have the freedom to date around. This America...enjoy your freedom. Do not settle until you find the ONE.
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