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I hate my home life, should I run away?

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Question - (10 May 2011) 10 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *ateithere123 writes:

im 15 and i hate it at my house i dont want to be here no more the only reson im still here in my lil sister , she is the love of my life but im not happy and home these always fight with my mom and her boyfriend and she all way picks him of me , on mother day ( i stay ove ma cuzin the night befor ) i cam home i got yell at bec i asked for a pair of shoe i been asking for shoes for 3 weeks , and its not like i have shoes and i want more i have no shoes . so my moms boyfriend got in my face and was yelling at me . andd alot more of stuff but at the end of the day i cry in bed bec i want to runaway . i dont no wat to do .. plzz help

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A female reader, hateithere123 United States +, writes (15 May 2011):

hateithere123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok so i did go and , it was great i love it there but they cant take me they said weeks maybe but they only have a 1 bedroom apt. so i dont want to move in and be in there way . well when i was there my mom try to act like she miss me or care like she called to say good nite and like if i was home she would not do that , so want i did come home she came in my room to talk about something that happin with my cuzin , but then she leave , and i need to ask her something , i want to no why her and her bf think im a bad kid cuz all weekend ppl who did not even no me were telling me and my Grandmother she good kid .so then she did not say any thing. so i when in my room . like 20 mins l8r she came in we had a really good talk me and her . soo like 1 hour after i need to used her phone because she shut mine phone off . she i went in to the hall way and ask '' can i use your phone '' she said for wat i said bec i need to ask victoria dad if im still come come his house to clean on wed. she said they dont want you down there they told me . so i said well can i used your phone to fine out why . she gave me her phone and i called him and she lied he did not say nothing like that . so then i ask her why did you lie , sooo now me and her are fighting agin . ugh i cant stand it. then she told me i had to sit at the table when im still not talking to her bf. and idk wat to do .

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (13 May 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntGo to your Grandmother's do not hit the streets.

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A female reader, hateithere123 United States +, writes (12 May 2011):

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i think i could but it still dose not solve nothing . i dont want to be here no more , like today she came in my room said i want to talk , so i when down to the livin room and she start to siad im sorry i love you then her bf was like no your not , he called me a lil b**** . its just tooo much she is tellin ppl i hit her when for real she hit me it was not in my face but in my side so i push she way. am i wroung for pushing her ? , im mosliy goin to runway this weekend . i cant take it no more , if i dont runway im goin to try to see if my gmom will lett me stay there for a lil bit ..

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (11 May 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntAs long as there is no abuse, I guess my suggestion for you is to study hard, get a scholarship into a good college and make a very bright future for yourself and help your sister to do the same. Lots of people have a bumpy start in life but rise above it by sheer determination. You can too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011):

Hi my dear, I'm sorry things are so sad for you at home. Deginately see a good counsellor at school or at a local church. Keep looking until you can find one that you feel happy that can help you. Perhaps even get them to come and visit your house, as a child and young person you are very entitled to have peace and quiet at home and so is your little sisiter. You are certainly allowed to tell people what is goin on and how unhappy you feel, it is very good that you made a start here online and now you should try and find some good trained adults to help you out, rather than trying to handle it on your own - that is not your responsibility.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011):

this iss hateithere123

i unstand that , and i did not ask for them on mother day but and even if i did its not like iwas demaning them , they said wee have no money but yet they have money for a new car ,idk im i have been feel like i dont want to bee in my house for 2 month andd the other day my mom fb told me to leave and take my ssi with me . and she did nothings about it . like i feel not wanted here ,i get yelled at for any and every thing . im tired of it

andd my dad passed away in 2008

andd now they are takeing my laptop even tho i got it my self .

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A female reader, hateithere123 United States +, writes (10 May 2011):

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my dad passed away in 08

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A female reader, hateithere123 United States +, writes (10 May 2011):

hateithere123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i unstand that , and i did not ask for them on mother day but and even if i did its not like iwas demaning them , they said wee have no money but yet they have money for a new car ,idk im i have been feel like i dont want to bee in my house for 2 month andd the other day my mom fb told me to leave and take my ssi with me . and she did nothings about it . like i feel not wanted here ,i get yelled at for any and every thing . im tired of it

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (10 May 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhere's your Dad?

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A male reader, sighprash Australia +, writes (10 May 2011):

sighprash agony aunthun, dont be too hasty..

i know it may suck now with the moms BF and all... but honestly think about it.... if you run away life will be worse , trust me... every second you leave the house.. ull wish u could go back... but ud feel too guilty and ashamed... plus i think, if you run away u would cause your mom a lot of pain and emotional stress...

please, just take the stress for now... running away will be the worst mistake of your life if you dont!

Trust me!!!

~Prash~

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