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female
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51-59,
*hygirl45
writes:So the guy I am seeing stills goes on pof every night. Approx a week ago I told him I would like for him not to go on pof, and of course he said he wasn't looking for anyone, just checks mail and has friends, and actually said his cousin was on it and he talks to her. BS?????? This past weekend I picked him up at his house and took him home the next morning, we had a great time, and of course he acted like he was crazy about me. When I took him home I joked about knowing where he lived and I could do a drive by or stop in anytime. He said "you can stop in anytime". he knows I wont. I called him later in the afternoon just to chat, had to run an errand, when I got back I checked to see who was online at pof, and there he was. I didn't hear from him the next day, no phone call no text, later that night he was on pof, then was on facebook, he didn't acknowledge me, so I logged off. He left me a mess saying "what u been up to, long day going to bed, an hour later on pof. I didn't reply back. So now I am soooo turned off (I am 50/50). My question is, if he sends me another mess or text should keep ignoring it and see if he comes to see me (we had talked about getting together middle of week).Should I send him a message letting him know that I am turned off. I was gonna tell him in a nice way that since he had time to go to pof, obviously I was not priorty, but that's ok, it's just a turn off for me, it is obvious that we are not on the same page, but that's ok, I am not mad about it, you do your thing and I will do my thing.My other question is, he's really not in to me, right?How can he act like he is crazy about me when we are together and not want to call me or text me on a daily basics? My guess he is giving me just enough and keeping his options open for something else to come along. I really don't know.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 It sounds to me like you are right he is deffo trying to keep his options open. Dont ignore him though just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. He needs to set his priorities straight if he want to keep you. Goodluck.
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