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writes:till now i cant move on my past.. ive been badly hurt before.. its hard for me to trust once more.. i have a bf before i get here in japan.. he promised me that he will wait for me.. but couple of months staying here..i heard news about him.that he got new and shes pregnant.. 2 years past.. till now we dont have any formal breakups.. im trying to move on.. but i dont know how.. pls. help me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): Sometimes, in life we don't get a formal break up, the break up is that he has got a new girl friend and that she was pregnant. As you say two years have past, it's time for you to close that chapter and move on.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 Go out and meet people that'll make you forget about him, do things that you love to do that'll distract you. The less you even think about getting over him, the more faded your feelings of betrayal and hatred will become, the more faded those memories will get and the more faded your remaining feelings for him will become until they are but shredded remnants of a relationship turned sour.
I hope that helps.
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