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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid,i was dating my ex for 9 months and we never had sex,and i found out that he was cheating and ended it,we got back together this year(june)and he think we should have sex,did he come back to get what he never got at the first place?my viriginity
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): Yes. It is rare to spot the signs which you have done. Credit to you but make sure you move on and leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): Sweetheart
Its never hard to give up on someone who doesnt love you. I understand you love him but its better if you leave him. You might have pain but its better not to waste your time with some one like him. By him telling you that he loves you is just an act to get you to have sex with him dont fall for those tricks.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (2 September 2010):
 I think you already know. Don't have sex with anyone til YOU want to and feel ready.
I think, personally, that is wants to be the "one" to pop your cherry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): Yep that's exactly why he's back. I bet he even blamed you for his cheating by saying it was because he was frustrated because he "loves" you and wants sex with you so much that he just had to have it from someone.
He probably even used the old trick of if you have sex with him then he won't need to cheat.
You know why he's back, you know what he wants and it's up to you as to whether you'll give him your virginity or not. Something tells me you know you'll regret it though. He obviously doesn't love you if he felt the need to cheat. So I don't even know why you took him back in the first place.
Trust your instincts, your suspicions are correct.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): I'm afraid he just wants to use you. It's likely that once someone cheats on you, they're likely do it again. Don't let him worm his way back into your life.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 September 2010):
He just wants to use you. He cheated before, and now he's come back and suddenly he wants to have sex. He'll just use you. You really need to leave this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): The fact is that i realy love hm and he always tel me that he loves me,m confused,i dont know what to do,givin him up is the hardest thing i have to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): Sweetheart
you dated him but ended up cheating on you thats not good. If he actually had any sexual experience with the other girl then theres a big chance of him coming back to get your virginity.I believe that you should break up with him because it isnt worth being with a guy that is only there to take what shouldnt be his. Dont let this continue end it as soon as you can.
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