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How do I find a foreplay/fetish partner?

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Question - (27 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I have a fetish for cotton, namely cotton petticoats/underskirts. I also like foreplay and doing it partially dressed...I'm not interested in intercourse.

I've been attempting to look for a partner to share my desires with, but almost everyone I've met just wants "sex". Nobody likes to play around. Is there something I can do to increase the chance or help me find someone?

I don't even get to the point I have a fetish; as soon as I mention I want foreplay and not intercourse its an immediate turn off. I don't want to have sex, I'm not ready for it yet.

I've tried two fetish sites, but have not found anyone with common interests. I was hoping for some advice for real world meet people face-to-face.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (28 October 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntThis may see a little out there and if they still allow it..Why don't you post a thread on Craigslist under personals? That way you can find ladies in your area who share the same fetish and is looking for some oral action. I will say it doesn't sound like a common fetish, most are into the nylon, polyurethane, leather fetish.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2010):

natasia agony auntSounds like a fairly tame fetish. Why don't you not label yourself as having a fetish, but rather think that (like a lot of us) you like fresh cotton against your skin, and you aren't ready for sex? And find a girlfriend who also isn't ready. And give her the present of a petticoat. And the rest will be history.

Don't look for a match on strange websites - find someone you like who is also not ready for sex. And it sounds to me as if you just have a particular curiosity and preference re: the cotton. Liking foreplay and being half dressed is not a fetish.

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