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writes:So heres my problem: My girlfriend hasnt been so affectionate lately so i brought it up with her and asked if there was something wrong and if she wanted to talk about anything. so she kinda gave me round about answers like "idk" and such so eventually i got her to talk. She told me that shes been feeling wierd and confused about what she wants, whether or not shes truelly happy being in a relationship or not. and she assured me that she loved me. so i told her id give her some time to think and later that night about 40 min after she usually goes to bed(we usually say goodnight to each other, but not in this instance) i get a txt from her that says she loves me and thats it. so i dont really know what to take from this whole situation, is she just being a "girl" and this will pass? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 October 2010):
 2 months. I think that helps make my case.
Thanks for the followup.
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reader, Sensativeguy010 +, writes (27 October 2010):
Sensativeguy010 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@dirtball-
We have been dating for a little over 2 months, and we care about each other A LOT.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 October 2010):
I think it's good you talked about it. You sensed a problem and addressed it. Excellent work.
With regard to her, it's hard to say. Of course, being a guy I'm probably not the best person to read your GF's mind. Usually big questions like she has come when people are considering taking a next step in a relationship. It is a way to decide if they should cut bait or push through in hopes this will last. At least, that's been the case in my past. I wouldn't push the issue, but I wouldn't let it drop either. I would also suggest doing some little things to brighten her day and remind her why she loves you.
How long have you been together?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 October 2010):
Just sit tight and let her think. She just has to think, so give her time and let her think. Might take a few days. But you're more likely to get a proper answer from her if she's had time to think without pressure.
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