A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:iam so worried and i really need help. me and my boy fiend are in a long distance relationship (we talk on phone every night since we have met and text each other all day). he loves me and i die on him. my mom and his whole family know about our this relationship and they are even agreed for we to be together. the only problem is my dad as he'll never accept him (due to some stupid social taboos). i cant elope with him because my dad has very high contacts and sources to find us and when he'll do, he'll kill both of us. now the only option left for us is that i study and have some great job so that i can face my dad's big contacts later. my b.f is currently working somewhere to earn his living but he is also not very rich infact he needs his current job badly! the problem has started now when he has been transferred to a town where there are no mobile networks, no internet, no landline. if he doesn't go than he'll loose his job and if he goes than we wont be able to continue our talks and texts (without which no single day passes and i wont be able to live)... nnow he is asking me to take the decision for him. i know that for his family and living he needs the job badly but i cant live without him so kindly suggest what can i do now??????? i'm afraid if i ask him to leave the job maybe he'll later regret this and than will blame me and may be will start hating me????????? dont know..........
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 Ok you need to tell him that this is his decision and not yours and if he decideds to take the job reassure him that you will stick by him and sure you can keep in touch by writing to each other.
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