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writes:Ive been with this guy for 8 mnths,my problem is that hes got a small penis.its like 3 inches but i didnt mind until we had sex,i didnt feel anything nothing what so ever.is there something wrong with me?i need help.or is it too small.i really like this guy but our sex life is bad.he seems to be enjoying himself.and wants sex everytime.
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 I agree 3 inches is on the smaller side but maybe he's not doing things right either? He sounds like a good guy and maybe you can explore using toys or somehing to please each other!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 His penis is too small for you. Nothing wrong with you. And is penis is well below average. You should try and talk to him about this, because unless the two of you work on this together you will never get to enjoy the sex. There's not much you can do on your own, you have to have his cooperation. You could for example use toys during sex, make him wear a "sleeve" over his penis to feel him better, try different positions etc.
(as for the sleeve, they sell them at sex shops for masturbation primarily)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): Like many, many people in this world - you need to understand that"sex" isn't all about penetration. In fact penetrative sex is a very small part of the fun and intimacy you can have with a partner - indeed many people (particularly women) don't really enjoy penetration at all, and some couples have fulfilling sex lives without ever "doing it" in that sense. 70% of women can't orgasm from penetration alone, regardless of their partner's penis size - so don't despair.
If penetrative sex isn't working for you for whatever reason, then you need to find other ways to have fun in the bedroom. Presumably he still has two hands and a tongue, and is perfectly capable of pleasuring you with those - you need to encorporate more oral and manual stimulation into your sex sessions, so tell him this. Make it a challenge if you like - he has to make you come at least twice before you let him inside you - the game could be a real turn on for both of you.
You could also discuss encorporating some sex toys - browse the stores online, visit a sex shop together, or order a catalogue and discuss some of the "equipment" you might both like to try - buying a decently sized vibrator might work for you, but try to avoid anything that actually looks like a penis, or you may make him feel insecure.
Good luck!
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