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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together a year and 3 months. Recently we broke up for two weeks. He came tome begging for forgiveness and said he would change for me and do anything. It has been a while and I haven'tseen any change from what he used to be. Before the breakup I took our relashionship very seriously butrecently he told me he didn't. I just feel as though I'm always hanging around and waiting for him, and I can'thelp it because he is the world to me.I know he loves me I just wish he could show it to me more when we are not with each other. He is sometimes childish, and only thinks about what he wants andneeds. It hurts me when he can't live up towhat he said especially all the times he hashurt me in the past.Today I'm having second thoughts and I don't know what to do about him...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 July 2010):
You're hanging onto a dream, like some many women before you who have sat there thinking a man can change. Change really does come from within, and this guy doesn't want to change. Empty promises, selfishness and the fact that he didn't see the relationship as seriously as you did are all signs that things just won't change. He's already hurt you, and now you're rather knocking at the wolf's door by going back to him. He may mean the world to you, but you do not mean the world to him. And you deserve someone who will treat you far better than this. You do. You need to let him go. There are other, better guys out there.
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