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*oethuzaraye
writes:Hi guys. Please help me!!My boyfriend is in out of town right now. He is Puerto Rican. He went back to his town to visit and he gonna comeback August 10. Last night he told me he gonna go to bar with his uncle and his cousin. He don't come back home until like 1AM.He called me from the bar and saying that his cousin took his car to go to make out with his gf and he hasn't come back to bar. So,he just drinking and waiting his cousin. I called to by mid night and he hasn't comeback yet so he still waiting. He told me he is honest with me to tell me everything. Can I trust him? How can I be secure woman and nice woman understanding woman for him. cause I think I'm too much jealous and inseure woman. Because when he tell me like those story I thinking of he might be making out with some girls and stuff like that.I don't know how to take that mind out. Last time he went to his naphew birthday party. They was in the pool and I called him so many time but he didn't answer the phone, when he answer I was yelling at him so bad and using nasty words. He got mad. he explain to me he was in the pool and he is with his family. I don't know why I don't believe what he said. Is man tell u the truth all the time? Cause when we was brok up for 8 months he was dating with another girl and he has sex with her, but he didn't tell me, I found out myself.may be that's why I don't trust him nomore. do you guys think can I trust him?Please help..
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (15 July 2010):
Well it didn't take him long to have sex with another woman when you broke up. and if you don't trust him its ok to go w/ your gut feeling. when he goes out again let him call you the first time so he will know you are at home and have a friend go w/ you go see what hes doing! that way your mind will be at peace stress is not good for you, and either is a cheating dog!! the question is if he is cheating on you can you leave him and get over it and find someone who will love you and guess what he'll be in the next room when he calls you not from a bar.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): it is problematic that you don't trust him, especially because you have some reason to (he wasn't honest with you when you broke up). but he is probably telling the truth now, he had no reason to lie before except that he didn't want to hurt you-but he wasn't being unfaithful. but you do need to talk about and try to resolve your trust issues.
good luck!
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