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writes:Hii have been with my gf for a year now and she is my world, she has a little girl of 7 months who i treat as my own.last night when putting the baby to bed i found a bit of paper on the floor and I read it, it was the start of a diary saying how she still loved the biological farther but was finding it hard because she really loves me.this made me feel sick and breakdown.what am i meant to do as i love them both so much, but dont wana be second best. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): i have spoken to her n she tells me its a different type of loveshe tells ne that she wants to marry me n b with me foreverbut my heart is killin right now, she cant stop tellin me that she loves me loads but when she says it all i think is has she said this to him ???we r meant to b goin away fr a long weekend tomorrow, do i go with or without her ???is it best to have some time alonei dont know what to do, i feel so weak because im sooo scared of losin demi (her lil girl) so i feel i cant walk away
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reader, MetalheadMiss +, writes (15 July 2010):
I think you need to be strong and sit her down and talk to her. Ask her who she feels more towards.
Does she still see the biological father?
Was he her first love? If so, she may just be taking time getting over him.
On the other hand, maybe the reason she loves you is because of the support you give her and her little girl.
Whatever the situation is, you can't let yourself do nothing because it will eat at you.
Be honest to yourself, be honest to her. At the end of the day, she has your answers and you both have some decisions to make.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 July 2010):
Well, you now know the truth. And there isn't room in the heart for two. Some claim to love two people. I always thinks that means that the person doesn't love either enough to make it worth staying. I think you have to be honest with yourself about what you found on the floor, and I think you need to think about whether you want to be in a relationship where you will always be just the replacement and nothing more. I know that sounds hard, and upsetting. But you're a decent guy and you deserve to be more than just the replacement man.
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