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*lah89
writes:well here goes, i'v had a on and off relationship with my ex but always felt it was more one way, i'v always had a soft spot for him and i'v ended every relationship i'v had in the past two years for him, then i finally had enough and told him i had enough, then i went on holiday where my mobile didnt work but the sat after i arrived he turned up at my door, which was odd, and declared his love saying i was all he thought about, all he wanted and every time we argue he thinks why i'm i arguing with you, i want nothing but to be with you. Hes in the medical field and im just starting uni to start my medical career and he was talking about how he'd help and support me. Lol but he was slightly drunk i was in shock tbh. But then now he is ignoring me........ I don't know what to do next, and why is he ignoring me? Any help?
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reader, blah89 +, writes (3 July 2010):
blah89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, i know wat i have to do. I'm just gonna leave it. For two years i'v waited on him, to realise. But now i'v realised i'm better off without him. I dont need that in my life. I'm better than that. Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): Yeah, sorry darling but that may be the case. Just be friends and if in the long run he tries one more time to tell you that loves you or confesses his love to you, you can probably take into consideration to be with him
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reader, blah89 +, writes (2 July 2010):
blah89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i tryed, but he didnt text back i even offered to forget it happend and go back to friends. But he didn't reply. I would give my right arm to know wat he was thinking. Does it sound as if he cares or after all this time he just used me?
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reader, Delilah1990  +, writes (2 July 2010):
 If he has broken your heart then things can always change. People change and when you don't talk to them for a while you don't really know what could be going through his mind, maybe he wants to have you in his life and he just doesn't want to show it. Maybe he's too scared to get close
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reader, blah89 +, writes (2 July 2010):
blah89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah buti cant get a hold of him. I'm starting to think he was just trying to get sex out of me, but to be fair, we've had sex alot over the last couple year without such a show down. I'v currently stopped trying to get a hold of him n hoping he panics again n i'm kinda positive it will work, but would i be daft in letting him back in my life after this? Hes totally broke my heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Well i guess you can say that he cares for you. Try and talk to him about it. get ahold of him somehow. Don't just let it slip away. That's the last thing you want becuase you might end up regretting it. So try and talk to him about why he confessed his love to you and now ignoring you.
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