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30-35,
*oannac22
writes:Okay so I'm 22 years old I have been married to my husband since I was 16 years old and we have 3 beautifull little boys Unfortatly last year of 2009 I got pregnant with my 3rd son and so around april of 2009 a couple that we had met back in 2006 came into our lives as friends ou know well the couple was very nice the young girl was my age and her husband was older he was 28 my husband is 24 well everything was doing perfect she had just had a baby girl and well we were helping them buy there first home since we had just bought ours!!! than time passed my belly was growing and there were things going around me that I did'nt realize well then my brother comes up to me and tells me one day are you not noticing whats going on with them 2 they flirt alot in your face and I was blind you know. so I started catching up to them and finally what I most feared was true I cought a recording and heard the entire conversation of them talking about him leaving me with my children and so onn I was so devastated that I totaly went off I wonderd why and what I did wrong I forgave him and that stupid girl kept making my life miserable till after I had the baby that I Finally was able to put a stop I still live with my husband because he says that he would'nt leave me for any women at all but to tell you the truth I really feel soooo much hate towards that girl that I have never felt in my entire life hate for anyone!!! I feel as if she deserves to suffer what I suffered through out my pregnancy which endangered my babys life because of her its bein almost 9 months but I still feel that I'm not satisfied I love him but I hate him when I think of everything....
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (1 July 2010):
Well you should hate him the most it takes two to tangle and one to say no! so now how do you move on and trust him again that is so hard to get back and get through maybe counseling will help? does she still live by you! i think you said she was married? i would make it a point to tell her husband and it wouldn't hurt my feelings none.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 July 2010):
 Tell her husband.
Then deny your husband the right to talk to this woman (she was his mistress after all). If your husband makes the necessary efforts to prove he is committed to you and to his marriage, work on the marriage. If he is not committed I am afraid he will cheat on you again and you should leave. By cheating he has broken his marriage vows.
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