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writes:My bf and i have been together 2 years. we had our shares of bad times and even took a couple month break because our fighting got bad. well the time apart brought us close together so i thought. in the midst of things i have been having alot of financial strain with getting laid off from my job and he and i both have seperate places. meanwhile his roomate recently moved out and he needs to find a new apartment but doesnt really make enough to move on his own so we both agreed we could get a place together soon, since then we started fighting over stupid stuff.The other day he told me he was leaving to come see me in 5 minutes and he didnt get there till an hour later, then when i asked him why he lied he said because he knew i would get mad. wth! and we just had our 2 year mark so i thought he would be xtra sweet n do something like make a card and get a lil gift but he didnt. H e ended up taking me to dinner and thats it. Even though elh i really appreciated it i was suprized he didnt even think to get a card.I not working and broke and all even got him a nice wallet and made him a sweet card with a poem,so we got to the restaraunt to eat and he tells me that this girl came up to him at the store he works at and tells him he should be a stripper with a body like his and he said he started laughing,he said the girl had a big ass and looked like a pornstar but was trashy lookin..wth its our anniversary and he is totally making me upset.I asked him why he would tell me this and he said bc im his only friend and he tells me everything. wow the whole night thats all i kept thinking bout. He said he wasnt flirting back but whatever. It sounded like he was bragging that a girl was flirting. and he is cocky acting sometimes with me. then all week he hasnt been staying over or coming to visit, he says bc work and school.He says im the love of his life but it doesnt seem so. Do you think he is purposly trying to get me angry or Is this just me over reacting or should really reconsider getting a place with this guy?Do you even think this dude cares?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Blatantly put, you have been with this inconsiderate, romantically oblivious boy for two years now and he seems to think little of it. But then again, is that really such a surprise? You have already taken a break once for a couple of months and that says that you two just were not able to work things out.
Do you really see yourself being married to this man or starting a family with him? He seems a little trapped in his own little world where everything is meaningless. He started talking in the most perverse ways on your two year anniversary and at a dinner he took you to. Something that was supposed to make you smile and bring you two together. Instead all the dinner did was make it painfully clear that you two just would not work out as a couple. At least not until he grows up and realizes that he needs to start thinking about you.
I hope that helps.
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