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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What do you do if someone wants to control and own you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I would like to know what people think about this if possible. If someone wants to control and own you - what do you do?? and they say things like - you do what I say or am gone...which I think is a form of emotional manipulation.. Anyway do you ...

Why is the father of my baby so stingy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - What to do if your boyfriend is stingy but earns three times more then you?? I just broke up again with my boyfriend cos the little things started to eat away at me. First - am pregnant and he is being totally unsupportive. Well he had bought me...

Can anyone explain why a healthy 28 year old has no desire for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I have been with the same person for 8 years, and we actually almost have the perfect realtionship, we pretty much best friends. The problem is the sex. I have NO desire what-so-ever. Im 28 years old. Im off the pill because I thought that was the ...

If he shouts abuse at me, I see red and lash out! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - me and my partner argue alot over stupid things like eg house work and animals etc i love him to bits but if he shouts abusive words at me i see red and lash out please please help me before it gets serously out of hand i am scared ive got ...

Should I propose to him... or should I give him more time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hello Everybody.. I need you opinion, been dating this guy for about 4 months. I am in love with him, i think he is the one for me. He makes me so very happy. Last week we decided to take a break because he is going thru something at the moment and ...

Is there any point...???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Ok, here it goes; I've known this guy now for nearly 2 months and at first we're getting on well and then suddenly he turns odd. I do like him and feel he will ask me out but now he's confusing me by giving these mixed signals! It's highly ...

Is he, did he, will he cheat? At a loss...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Never thought I'd do this but here goes... any advice appreciated... My husband and I have been together over 3 years. I spent the 1st year drumming it into him why constant sexy emails, calls and texts from EVERY ex he's ever had is NOT cool. He...

Help! Why did he change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I am a 21 year old woman and have worked with a man who is the same age as me for around a year and recently we have become good friends. Around 4 months ago we shared a kiss but because we were both drunk I put it mostly down to the alcohol. ...

What is worse - being blocked or deleted from MSN?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - What is worse - getting deleted or blocked from MSN? My ex deleted me from MSN because I was getting on her nerves but has not blocked me but I know we are still friends because we had an argument but forgave each other and she is giving me one last ...

Torn on the inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Okay, I don't know, I'm just confused... the guy i like has a girlfriend - that doesn't bother me because he goes through a lot of girls really quickly... I like him even though I should not because the relationship would only be a disaster. I tend ...

Do you think he is just taking things slow or is he seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I met this guy about a lil over a month ago we have hung out eight times overnight at his house. He is a very busy guy with work mon thru fri and is training for mma fighter. He has a set routine all week and on the weekends is when he sees his ...

Was her sick behaviour justified?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - My names David, I'm a 21 year old white male. I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months. I have a serious problem with abusive. I have abusive patterns such as name calling and violence. By violence I mean I hit her once. So I felt bad, very bad ...

She let ME down... so why do I feel I have to make amends with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hi Guys A few months ago I confessed feelings I had for a female friend. Initially, she accepted it and was pretty cool about it. I thought our "friendship" would survive, and she reassured me I could trust her. So I did, and of course, she let ...

Not being able to help my husband in his time of need is killing me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I am in love with this wonderful person who i just found out is a very sick man, he has a few mental issues, anger managment has helped him get over his anger but worst of all the doctors think he may have testicular cancer. I love this man very ...

Is there anything I can do to win her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - Three months ago I took a trip to my hometown of Palm Springs California. I moved away four years ago and I had to leave in my senior year in high-school and moved to Bakersfield California finishing my senior year at Liberty High School. Back when ...

We have decided to move it together. Good or Bad idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hey i turned 18 last month. Me and my bf have been together for 9months and hes 22 and has a secure well paid job. I live with my mum and sister but everything i have they pick at we dont get along what so ever and i spend majority of time in my ro...

Why am I avoiding romantic relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering if it's weird to be basically an adult but just dated one guy for 2 months. I'm scared of the whole dating thing and feel uncomfortable with the fact that someone wants to be with me? I feel that because I am so against the...

Do you think I should trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - my partner of 6yrs went on a night out for a big game so lot's of drink consumed and when the team won partying didnt stop.... he went to a female work colleagues house who lives in the opposite direction to our house with two others after a night ...

I don't think I can stand to have him in my life anymore, should I just walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - This is kinda a followup to something i logged in April. The guy that i am seeing on and off as friends has again being going through a rough time. I have tried to be supportive but he just keeps pushing me away. We were supposed to be meeting up ...

How do I tell her I want her to initiate sex more often rather than leaving it to me all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - hi ive been with my gf a bout 4 months now. we have sex every day which i am very happy about but i wish she would initiate it some of the time. its always me and although she almost never turns me down i cant help sometimes feel i want2 do it mo...

My boyfriend's friends make fun of me for my beliefs and he always takes their side!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - My bf's friends put me down for my Christian values and beliefs. They always make fun of me and put me down. My bf doesnt say anything to them. He lets them get away with it. In fact, he basically defends them and takes their side!!! He says ...

He initiates "eye romances" with other women

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been living together for 3 years, and I have been putting up with his ROVING EYES the entire time. ANY time that we go anywhere, he ALWAYS finds another female that he is attracted to... and makes no secret of it. He first ...

He's made excuses not to spend the holidays with me, should I see this as a lack of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 6 months. We are serious, and have even just come back from a week long trip together. Now Thanksgiving is around the corner and he is not sure what his plans are. Says if he goes to his ...

Could I be falling for another sex addict or is this just a strong attraction to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hello, I am divorced and in a newer relationship with a nice man. I really like him a lot because he is very attentive. He makes me feel like I am #1 in his life. unlike my ex husband who wouldn't even carry a cell phone, this man will answer his ...

Did I do the right thing by calling my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

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Help! My Husband is confusing me!"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - My husband sometimes hides things from me like when other women he calls even his ex girlfriend who hurt him he talks to still. And the fact that he still looks at porn and yet he tries to hide even when we have a baby on the way any day now? how am ...

What is behind his accusations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has accused me of looking at other men in a sexual way and of cheating on him, for a little more than one year. I have officially gone insane and the other day I freaked out on him and shouted that I finally understand why h...

I have cheated on my husband resulting in 3 abortions and now he wants a baby!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - its been 10 weeks since my abortion im trying for a baby but it keeps coming negative.iv had 3 abortions. Due to careless behind my hubbys back.but now my hubbys really desperate for a baby.please help....