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*lmocutie
writes:This is kinda a followup to something i logged in April. The guy that i am seeing on and off as friends has again being going through a rough time. I have tried to be supportive but he just keeps pushing me away. We were supposed to be meeting up and asked him when we could so i could make arrangements. However he responded saying that he is not in the mood he is too tired and stressed and that its not right for him anymore he just wants to be friends. Im devastated because i have fallen for him all over again. I dont think i can have him in my life anymore because this is maybe the fifth time or so he has done this and i dont think i can bear it again. i dont want to lose but it feels like we will never be together. So should i just walk away? He swears this time he means we wont go back to having sex. He swore that before.
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reader, CaringGuy + ♥, writes (27 October 2009):
Looking at your post and looking the responses, I'd have to say that you're just wasting time with this guy. You deserve more than the treatement you're getting at this moment in life. Yes, walk away completely, really focus on getting your confidence back together, and when you're ready, you'll meet a guy who will adore you. Good luck.
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reader, thenotsogreat  + ♥, writes (27 October 2009):
 This relationship has been over for quite awhile. Why cant you accept it? He just doesnt have the courage to tell you he wants you to go.
I can never understand why people do this to themselves, is being single so bad? How can it be worse than this? You are a wonderful person and you should be with someone who will love and care for you.
The only option is for you to walk away, be single for awhile to get your head back on straight. Please believe me you wont regret it
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reader, icelordess  + ♥, writes (27 October 2009):
 You've been through this 5 times and you're wondering if you want to go through it again..well, how much can your heart take? Perhaps he's not meaning to, but he's hurting you quite deeply, isn't he? Is this really the way you want to live? And there are no guarantees that he won't hurt you again. I think for your own peace of mind its time to walk away. You aren't a yo-yo! Take care of yourself chicka, because in the end, you have to look out for you. I'm not sure I could be with someone who was that uncertain of his feelings. Its not a happy existence for anyone woman involved with him.
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