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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My best friend has been acting weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - My best friend has been acting weird! Sometimes when I stare at him he stares back then smiles. I love talking to him but lately I’ve been to busy and haven’t seen him. Today I said that the bus driver’s son was so cute and he said well I’m cute. He ...

Pleas from a friend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a female colleague, who is in a relationship and has a young son. Things have not been good in her relationship for a long time. We started spending time together outside of work and became really close. We have so much in common a...

I feel like there's someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and we are very serious. i go to his house and spend a lot of time with his family and all that. However, in those 2 years we basically fight everyday break up once a week but always get back ...

Will there ever be a proposal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating when I was a freshman in high school and he was a sophmore in high school. We broke up shortly after I started my senior year because he cheated on me. We were broke up for about a year and a half then got back ...

Is he using his son to cross the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Well thing between be and my boyfriend are going good now but he is moving out of his apartment this friday with no where to go. He's goal is to find a new place but hasn't yet. Until then he wanted to stay at he's sisters house whom he had lived ...

I wanted to understand what men think when a girl rejects them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I had met this guy that was a dj and he always asked for sexy pictures, I gave him one because I thought we were dating. I know how dumb that sounds but he convinced me. But now he wants to be friends and I stopped sending him pictures. I basically ...

I don't love him any more, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - hi everyone, i'm 20 years old and i'm with a 27 year old man. we have been together for a year and a half. my love from him is fading away. it is a long distance relationship, different countries. at the beginning everything was good, and we were ...

Am I right to be bothered by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - I would like advice on what must be a very common issue. My gf text me to say she was just finshing at work and that we would meet back at home. I went back from my work and arrived after about half hour. My gf came back 3 and half hours later. I ...

Is it over between us... or not???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I have been with another guy for about two years we were just friends with benefits and now we see each other at work and occasionally running into each other. He is seeing a couple of other people and still gives me that look like he still wants to ...

It can't possibly be mine as I didn't cum inside her!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - I'm a 25 year old guy. A couple of months back i was seeing this girl. We had sex twice. One time we used a condom the other time we didnt but I didnt orgasm (i pretended that I did) just to get it over and done with. Now she is claiming she is ...

3 guys... who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I'm really confused, i like 3 guys and 2 of them are claiming they love me and the other one is my best friend. They are all really different, yet they all care about me in the same way, they all hate seeing me upset and want to help, they all make ...

He said we shouldnt think too much, that we need to live in the moment. How can I do that if I don't have security???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - well.. i'm in a difficult situation here so i need all the advice possible before i do something stupid. my boyfriend and i met in high school once, but at the time i was with someone else. then i saw him like 5 years later once i was single t...

My friend's girlfriend tried to seduce me, now what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Last Friday I went to a small house party… The usual, got off with some girls, caught up with some old friends. Night took a turn for the bizarre near the end… I noticed my mates girlfriend, Kim and some of her friends were at the party. I had...

How do I break free from this abusive relationship I have with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - How do I break free from this abusive relationship I have with my boyfriend? When I am not with him, I feel strong and am ready to end it, but as soon as I see him, he changes my mind, he starts being sooo nice and says sorry etc and makes me hav...

She says she can't stand me asking if she's seeing someone else, but she never wants to have sex! So she must be cheating, right?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are having a problem seeing things from the same point of view. We've been together for almost two years and I have told her from the start that as long as we have sex and I am sexually satisfied, that we'll be happy and I w...

She seems to prefer the company of her dogs to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Hi I could really do with some help, I have been dating this girl for about 12 weeks now (Which I know is still early days) and I am starting to feel like I am loosing interest in her. Its not because I am no longer attracted to her because I am...

The stress of juggling him and my friends is making me consider breaking up with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - hey basically i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 months now. It started off very happy but there were some problems with the people surrounding me towards him (some of my friends). My boyfriend Jack was having a fling with this ...

Why does my man have moodswings??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - hello Why does my man have moodswings? well you see my man is like very romantic with me then in 5minutes time he is rude again or tells me dont you have something to do? i meen then again 30minutes later he want to be all romantic again w...

Am I a whore, or am I just confused?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i have a bf, and ive cheated on him 2wice. he doesnt know about it. but both times, it wasnt just sex. with the first guy we had had feelings for each other for years and when i was visiting home him and i ended up sleeping together and having this ...

Did he appreciate my honesty and my regard for his health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - This is a question for men, but ladies feel free to answer too especially if you had a similar experience. How would you guys react to a woman you previously dated/ seeing casually informing you after a month or so of breaking up/ parting ways (es...

Is he truly not ready, or just not into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Hi there, I met this man who is 30 and has just come out of a 7 year relationship. He bought a house and lived with his ex. She has moved out but they are now going through settlement. He says it is completely over and there is nothing between ...

Does he just want me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - how often does man need sex with his gf? i live far away from him, so he come to see me very often now. anytime he come to see me, he starts to lust me and want me to have sex with him, eventhough i refuse he still give me a sence of sex. after he...

Have we just grown too far apart and should we call it quits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and a full time student. I work part time at my job and also clean houses for extra cash. I am a very stressful, anal person honestly. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him deeply and things were going very well ...

Am I repulsed by men in general? Or is it my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i think i'm reaching breaking point, i'm trying to bottle things up but i know soon enough it wont work anymore when ever i get close to guys i get scared. i was abused by a family member from the age of 11 however i repressed memories unt...

Should I persue this girl and our internet "relationship"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - me and this girl I know have been in a sort of internet relationship for about 2 or 3 years. Well actually we were in one for about 5 months and then we lost contact. So I guess you can say it was over. This was in 2006-2007. Forward to may 2008 and ...