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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

The way he acts around girls I find to be too much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Ok so I've had this boyfriend for 2 years. We broke up on 2 occasions throughout this time, 1x cuz he wanted "a break" but then went out with someone else n lied to me about it. I decided things deserve a second chance so we went back out. We ...

Are my friends ditching me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - How can I stop being jealous of 2 of my friends? Basically I used to be best friends with one girl (A) throughout school we then went onto college where a another girl(S) we went to school with was in our class and I quickly became friends w...

He accused me of things I didn't even do, so why do I still love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I broke up with my abusive ex yesterday. He's been treating me really badly over my past (for the record - I didn't sleep around, I was a virgin when I met him! But I had made out with other guys, and he knew a couple of them. But all that happened ...

He's verbally abusive, and I think that I want out.

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7 October 2009 (F) - Hi I am 29 and have been living in a verbally abusive relationship, I THINK. In the last 5 years things have gotten worse for me, i dont think theres a time that anything nice is said about me and if we do have a conversation its usually negative...

What should I do about this controlling relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Last year after a very intense relationship of which I was 16 he ended it so I wanted to end my life and tried to do so. This year in April I met a guy at my church group, he is kind and treats me ok, so far not tried to use me, which is nice. We ...

He hurt me - do I really want to see him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - My friend and I were sleeping together. I was very much in love with him and he was with me, so he said, but it all went horribly wrong and we didn't talk for 7/8 months. To get over him I moved 300 miles away but it's not helped, it just means I ...

Am I normal? Is he the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I have been my bf for 5 years. However sex just doesn't turn me on! Reading romance novels, thinking of the process of sex, get me going.. But sex itself.. I feel not much- AM I normal? or maybe he's just not for me?...

Why did she keep this secret from me?

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7 October 2009 (M) - I'm confused. Why would someone got out of their way to not mention a relationship? I've known someone for almost 2 years and 65% of that time she was actually with someone. She went out of her way to keep it a secret because she would always say ...

Best friend resents my ability to bear children. How can I make this work?

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7 October 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my best friend's brother for a while now we live together and have a child on the way. My best friend has polycystic ovaries which has left her in a state on whether she can conceive or not, I recently helped her through ...

How do I find get back the old confident me?

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7 October 2009 (M) - I was seeing this girl in work for a few months. She was 8 years younger than me. I'm 31 she's 23. I am divorced, no kids, was in a relationship for 9 years, split up early in 2008, we just drifted apart. It was for the best. Anyway I didn't really ...

How am I supposed to sit with a bunch of guys I don't know and watch porn? Who's in the wrong here?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Last night my bf started yelling at me heaps because when I met his friends I was quiet and shy. However, I do feel I had good reasons for acting the way I did. Here is why: 1. I didnt even technically "meet them". I mean, he didn't introduc...

He had sex with my ex-friend - how can I get over my insecurities about it?

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7 October 2009 (F) - I'd just like someone to help me figure out why I have such a problem with this. I'm 17 years old, almost 18 and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend (19, almost 20) for over a year now. This is my first proper relationship and he's the ...

We are at a standstill. Now what?

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7 October 2009 (M) - Me and my 24 year-old girlfriend have been dating for 3 years. We have now reached a point where I want us to get our own place together, but she still wants to stay at her parents' place. Last year she said if I got my place first then she w...

How can I find out everything I need to know about this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Hallo everyone I hope you can help me out on this one because I'm lost and yet in love. It goes like, I met this man 39 last year, he works in Canada so he visits every 3 or 4 months. So more like a distant relationship. I'm a single mum and h...

Being in a ghost relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm really in desperate need for some advice about the "relationship" I find myself in. I already know that the right decision should just be to abandon it, but we all know that is not so easy when feelings are involved.So here goe...

I just found out he was released a week ago and I'm scared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I'm 33 yr old single mother of 3 boys.I been threw 7 yrs of a bad marriage divorced 10 yrs now.It made me stronge and cold. My problem is i dated a guy for 3 yrs,we broke up and he went nuts.One nite he went crazy trying to find me back and forth he ...

I feel like I am dating Jeckyl and Hyde. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I was in a very unhappy marriage for nearly 10 years. Now, I am a single mother of 3 (all under 10 yrs old). After the divorce I started seeing a man I had been with for a short while before I got married (we were both very young at the time). I...

He told me acted that way because he was angry at me and grieving. Is that reasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - My fiancé and had been getting along really well. He is close to fifty. He was laid off and was struggling to deal with that and the fact that his dad was very sick. We went up to a cottage together where, one night I got really mad at at him. I was ...

We had an argument, and he's threatening to go back to cutting. Help!

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7 October 2009 (F) - Please help me.. My boyfriend and I have a strong relationship, and I love him to death. He is kinda half-emo, and he's cut himself before. I don't want it to happen again.. We got in an argument and he's threatening to cut himself this Fri...