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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband sometimes hides things from me like when other women he calls even his ex girlfriend who hurt him he talks to still. And the fact that he still looks at porn and yet he tries to hide even when we have a baby on the way any day now? how am I to feel? I've told him to quit ties and he says no again how am I to feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): I found out my husband was looking at porn while i was at school. I was really upset at first, then I showed him how to delete browser history. I told him I don't mind what he does on his own time, but when I'm looking for a link in the history, I don't want to see "busty brunettes" and "long-legged blondes" left and right!I've asked loads of guy friends, too... and talked to the husband- generally they look at it as entertainment. Not cheating.As long as it is well-hidden and I don't stumble upon it when I'm doing my computer things... I don't mind. I don't think about it.Pregnancy is a hard time, though, to be dealing with these things. You may feel insecure about yourself, your future, and your own feelings. Hormones can be really punishing.Just be strong, and communicate. When you feel scared, tell him - when you need a hug, ask for one. There's no shame in it, and chances are, he'll feel less confuzzled too :)
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