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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do I have a really low sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - sruthi.. I am very much worried that I am not able to enjoy sex, as some feeling is holding me back.. I never felt in that peak stage of mood. He is saying that he is not sensing any interest from me, and he wants me to initiate and show more in...

I found out my boyfriend has a baby with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Hi i just found out that my boyfriend, that i been in love with for the 3years had a child 5 months ago with another women! I dont know what to do, and to make matters worse i was pregnant two months ago and he told me to have a abortion because he ...

How do I explain to him how he's hurting me without making him angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been engaged for 9 months. We started off hot and heavy, and then we kind of petered out into what I thought was a normal functioning relationship. we moved in together in my parents house 3 months after getting engaged ...

Her actions concern me..should they?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - Am I wrong to be concerned about her actions? How can I gain the strength to walk away? Am I the problem? I am struggling with making the move and saying how I really feel and my gf is pushing to try to get me to buy a bigger place so that we...

Gaining your lover's trust back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Ok so you lost your partners trust… whether it may be resulted from cheating or lying, it's gone from you now. I have plenty of experience in this topic for I have been through it myself and I was the one who lost trust for my partner. Once you lose ...

My ex girlfriend accused me of cheating and now wants me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I am a gay girl. I met a girl a year ago whom I really liked. It was supposed to be only a ONS, but we agreed to go on a date after she returns from holidays. The date only materialized few months afterwards, on my instigation. However aft...

How do I leave my husband so I can have a happy life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - We have been married for 5 yrs now. My husband never flirts with me nor he never takes me out. We always have sex but we have never made love. My husband has got lots of cyber relationships which i have lost count of. Each time i find out we have a ...

Am I wrong for wanting her to stop being friends with people she made out with in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - My fiancee had a very wild, promiscuous past, with guys and girls. I have dealt with that and moved on, enjoying the present. However, it recently came up that she had been with one of the girls who is still her friend today. I told her it made me ...

My insecurities are driving me nuts. I just need to hear some good advice really.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - my gf and i broke up and got back together but during our 30 day breakup she had sex 4-5 times with another coworker of mine. i have to see him 5 days a week. even though we WERE broken up and im the one that broke up with her to begin with, she ...

I felt lonely because he was committed to another woman so I slept with another man. Is there a chance he will come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - last year i was deeply in love with a guy whom it was love at first sight, he jumped when i ordered him to and didnt ask how high. we did so many things together and he even broke my virginity. our relationship was starting to be serious, we even ...

We fight all the time because I am so busy and don't have time for him, what can I do?

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13 October 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend but all time we quarreled on the topic i cant give much time to him n we all ready maintain long distance relationship..so he just wanted that i give him more time .. im busy in short period but at that time he understand me but ...

Does he have any intentions of making a life with me or am I just a booty call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - So let me start off with a little history. I met this guy right out of high school, we had this connection that was so strong its unexplainable and we hadnt even had sex, After about three months he got into some trouble and ended up in jail, I kept ...

I don't know if I can do everything he has asked of me but I love him so much! How can I get the old him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. Please help me, I don't know how to decited now. I have date with him for 2 years and we just broke up for stupid reason.(he don't spend time with me). So, i got mad and i left him. He cried first day (i know because he call me) After ...

I feel like he is using my lies as a way out of our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - So i met this guy online. and he and I have talked for over a year now. we got to the point where I loved him and he loved me, and we never hid that. we'd say "i love you" quite often. Im from the states and he from Canada. Im 20 and he's 33. the ...

He has become much less affectionate with me, do I stay with him or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Hi I really don't know what too do, I met my present partner back in March 09, we had a great sex life and he was very physically affectionate and loving then but over that time he had a male flatmate who was a control freak, that flat mate has left...

I'm questioning whether I should marry him because he clearly does not want to have this baby with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I am 4 months pregnant and due to marry my fiance in December. I am in my middle 40's and really wanted another child but thought it wouldn't happen at my age but it did. My partner told me that his child rearing days are over and that he never ...

His empty promises are starting to make me think that he doesn't care about me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Ive always thought people are in a serious relationship when they "want" to do special things for each other. ive been seeing this guy for the past year, im very attached to him, probably in love with him. i know for a fact that i mean a lot to ...

My girlfriend is a compulsive liar and I don't know what to do, she will only answer my questions with more lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - Hey so im going to get straight to the point. ive been with my girl for exactly 6 months in 2 days and im really worried because shes a compulsive liar to everyone, i didnt think it was to me until i found out her ex has been giving her hundreds and ...

She finds it difficult to open up to me and have any physical contact with me, I'm worried we will get stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I am almost 31, a single father (never married) and a business professional in my community. I have a 4 yr old little girl that is so well behaved. I am very blessed, and grateful. For 2 months I have been dating a 27 year old woman that I think the ...

Why do I feel so insecure about my girlfriend's bisexual past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I've known my girlfriend for almost 16 years. We've dated off an on during that time. She comes from a troubled background and in her teens and (during the time she knew me up until now) she was cheating on somebody (guy or girl). We ne...

I feel like I am competing for attention with her online guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I recently posted pertaining to my ex girlfriend who I have been hanging out once again after a 5 year hiatus. Here is a piece of it: "She communicates online daily with a guy she used to be CRAZY about back in college 6 years ago. I mean CRAZ...

How do I control him and get him to not listen to his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I need help for my relationship with my boyfriend who I date 2years now. We've move to his home town 2months ago and now I came back to Arizona because he been listen to his family. He take advice from them and fight with me.Especially ...

He says he does not need a girlfriend. Why the mixed signals?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, and it is great for the most part. He just still does not want to say we are boyfriend and girlfriend. He says that he has his kids and he does not need a girlfriend. He is sending me mixed ...

Why is my boyfriend bad mouthing me? I feel so betrayed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is always looking for validation and sympathy from his friends and family. I found out that he makes me sound like a bully to everyone around him!? I am not a bully!? I notice his friends and family ignoring me and giving me bad ...

How do I get out of this abusive situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - ok so ive been with my boyfriend for about 18 months. we have a 6 week old daughter together. he has: called me every name you could imagine - slut, whore, bitch, skank.. etc. has compared me to his ex girlfriend stating how she was so much more...