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Archived questions from: 1 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have a bf but can't forget the other guy. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - I've made such an incredible mess. I was with somebody for 3 years (lets call him D) and threw the whole relationship away for someone who I had so much in common with, he made me feel wonderful and he was ever so good looking, my tall dark mystery ...

I think deep down he loves me -- any ideas about what's going through his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Why I can't forget him while he seems to me just a liar? He knew that i am elder than him for about 14 yrs but he continuously showed his love and jealousy for me .I am an educated , unmarried and pretty woman.I have my reputation and position as ...

He's constantly jealous, I can't go anywhere or talk to anyone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - im 19 ive been in a relationship since Jan 25 of 08 a little over 1 1/2 and already have a 8months old baby by him and i live with his parents. i gave up everything/everybody to make him happy and to be with him.he is constintly jelious of ...

I think I have ruined her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Ok, im not normally one to post my issues for the world to see, but im seriously heading downhill extremely fast. Let me start with a little history. I have always had major battles with depression. My last relationship took a serious toll on ...

Are any women actually trustworthy?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - I'm losing faith in humanity in general and myself in particular here. A little more than five weeks ago, my fiancée dumped me. I'm 25, she's 21, and we had been together for over 3 years, engaged for over one year. We were making good progress pl...

My boyfriend doesn't acknowledge my hurt feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over two years now. Last week, he left to go out of town. We made plans earlier in the day to see each other that evening. As we were talking, he stated to me he was going to call me back. He ...

Is his financial irresponsibility a sign of things to come?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been through ups and downs. We just started semi-living together. We stay together 3-4 times a week. He lost his job a few months ago and is just getting by with the unemployment that he receives. In some ways, he is very ...

Why does my husband feel the need to lie to me about silly little things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - its been like 1 year for my marriage and now for few months i have come to my moms house for some work and i talk to my husband daily over phone and we chat online also but sometime he lies to me. Like, if i ask him what are you doing now he says ...

Why won't he leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Hi Theres a boy "mark" who i used to like and we hooked up once but it didn't work out so we stopped talking and avoided each toher for a while. Bout a year ago we started talking and became good mates again. Bout a few weeks ago i started se...

His female friends seem more suited for him..should I say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Hey I've just started going out with this boy who i met through a friend, hes really nice, friendly and polite. He's kinda emoish but likes mainstream music and stuff as well. I'm not really into either of them. He has alot of friends who are girl...

My name is being dragged through the mud! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Hi, I recently asked a question regarding my ex-girlfriend and my new girlfriend. My new girlfriend wanted me to change my facebook status to "In A Relationship" after dating her for just a couple of weeks. I met her less than a week after me an...

What would you do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - Your gf/bf of 1.5 years had sex with his/her ex (multiple times) after a week and a half of being broken up. he/she really regrets it and wants you back. would you take him/her back?...

We have been dating but I found him back online asking to meet up with other women!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Ok here goes Typical story, one of which I have not been in before and kinda need advice I met a guy around 3 months ago from a site. Chatted for a good while and then met up. Got on great and he asked to see me again. Had another date. Dat...

My mum has just been diagnosed with cancer but I'm supposed to be moving to Oz next month - I want to be there for my mum but I don't want to lose my boyfriend either!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - I would appreciate any advice.. My Mum was diagnosed with rectal cancer last week and has to undergo chemo and radiation therapy combined before an operation in January. She may have to have chemo afterwards too. This has all come as a massive ...

I'm getting bored with my 6 month relationship, please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for six months on the 13th. Things have been kind of rough for us (I cheated on her in the beginning, I told her, we worked through it; I'm experiencing impotence lately that's putting a strain on us; There's ...

Before we got married we would talk for hours but now he is only interested in sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - I am married last month. my husband is not communicating with me. he is just like machine. before marriage he spoken to me hours and hours.but he is interest in sex. i feel only sex is life i feel very bad. he want to consider for each and every m...

Should I confront my girlfriend about her behaviour with other men or just believe that she is telling the truth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - i always find my girlfriend in the act of relating with men claiming she's got nothing intimate with them and it hurts. what if she's telling these guys that i am just a figure around her that i pose no threat at all? I'm confused and wondering if i ...

He can't stand that I have a 'past' -- will every other guy be the same way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - Are all men obsessed with their partner's past? My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. In the beginning everything was perfect, obviously. Until he asked about my past. It wasn't wild, I made out with some guys, had crushes on other...

Am I being stood up? Or are the texts really not going through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - First off, thank you all who take the time to read and respond to my question. I really appreciate it. Ok, so my ex-girlfriend and I have been split for about 3 weeks. She initiated the breakup so I agreed and went my separate way for about a week...

Why does she refuse anal sex with me, her husband? She did this with her ex...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - my wife and I have always had a very honest relationship, but one night I asked to have anal sex. She denied me access so I asked why. We have attempted it once before, however I stopped because she really wasn't enjoying it. Her reply was very ...

Am I right in my decision to try and start my life again?

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1 October 2009 (F) - Hi,I need you guys advice for my relationship.Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years.After 5 months dating we moved together and 2 years we moved to his country (puerto Rico).We met in United State(Arizona). I love him that's why I leave ...

Its so hard to communicate sometimes with her and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

1 October 2009 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for almost a year now and I truly care for her. She means everything to me, but sometimes its really hard to communicate with her. She gets high and drinks sometimes, and when I talk its hard to understand what she ...

I just don't feel that buzz anymore..feel more rapport with male friends than him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - My partner and I get along well enough. But, I just don't feel that BUZZ anymore. I have a hard time relating to him and don't know why everything (for me) seems more difficult than it should be with him. We didn't start off like this and I don't ...

He broke up with me, I don't see how it was my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) - We were fine , , quite and peace life , sometimes he was ignorant other time he used to be nice .. but we were fine .. until the black Thursday night came without any warns .. I wish the day didn’t come ,but there is something waiting me on the c...