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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I love my boyfriend but am terrified of him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - I really need some help. I am trapped. I don't know where or who to go to bc the stupid part of me feels that this isn't reality. My boyfriend of 2 years is from Italy. I am American. He's been coming down from depression and I have been trying...

I'm so confused, is she backing away or jus flaky?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - Hey Everyone just seeing if I could get a little advice on a situation I'm having right now. So I have been casually seeing this girl for about 5 months...we use to date way back in the day and hadn't seen eachother in like 6 years...we started ...

How do I balance meeting her needs and finding my own space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - ok so here is my beef... i been dating this girl on and off for two years. we have a kid together and are now together. long story short we split up during the pregnancy and 6 months after the kid is born we been trying to be together. she mo...

Friend giving me the cold treatment, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - My friend has been a bit off with me lately and I'm unsure of whether to go to her birthday party. First of all, I was supposed to be meeting her for a cup of tea, but I forgot I had a driving lesson in my home town an hour and a half away, so I'd ...

I want him to commit to me but he has commitment issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - i have a really big problem. i really like this guy that i met 3 months ago he said he has been in very bad relationships and he dont want a girlfriend to be commited to. but the only problem there is i have also been in very bad commited ...

My friend is paranoid and I want to help him, will writing a letter be alright?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for two and a half years now. Until the last few months it was going reasonably well. However, he has paranoia issues. He's well educated, over 60 and not currently working, and became homeless (after ...

She thought I didnt like her so she went with another guy, now she is torn beteween the two of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - Hi All, Just a quick question - I hooked up with this girl a few times over the last few months, we speak all the time and I was giving her some space to sort herself out (due to her just coming out of a long term relationship). I was waiting for ...

Is he cheating or did I over-react? Opinions please...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - I am pregnant - about 14 wks. Last night the father of the baby who I dumped 5 hrs prior - just after work, for not taking care of romance and for ringing me less and never having any time for me anymore. I felt he could have been using me so I ...

What does she want? She says she is really into me but then she just wants to be friends!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - Okay, here goes.....This may be quite lengthy so bare with me.....Okay I work with this lady and she is ABSOLUTELY STUNNING! (in my eyes anyway!) I'm not bad looking myself and there has always been a physical attraction between us. We knew each ...

I'm still obsessing over a one night stand, how can I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - I have a question that has been on my mind like an obssesion and I can’t get it out of my head. Of course it’s about a guy! I don’t know weather it is important to take it from the start, or if it’s just clear that he is a jerk and I am putting too ...

My dad physically and sexually abused me and I'm having flashbacks

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - What To Do? i am now 19 and have 2 amazing little boys with my longterm partner, sound good right? well its not all so perfect When i was a young girl my own dad physically and sexually abused me at first i didnt understand it was wrong but it ...

2.75 years together and now she wants time to think about us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 2 3/4 years already. On the 1st of this December, it will be our 3rd year together. Last monday she decided that she wanted to leave so that she can "think" on what she wants to do with out ...

My b/f always takes me along when he is busy, thus leaving us little alone time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of about a year and a half always takes me with him when he sees his friends, and well, at first it felt good - I was able to get to know his friends and it was good to know that he somehow wants to show me off to his friends. But ...

Tips on stressed out girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - So question- When my girlfriend is stressed out, she usually gets pretty cranky. It's really difficult to talk to her, and the usual consolation to typical complaints (I've been working forever, or I'm gonna fail these tests) don't work. Not ...

Is this harassment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - My ex broke up with me about 5 months ago. I found out he started dating a girl a week later and they are still together. I stopped all contacts and explained to him my reasons. He has been sending me emails which I do not respond to. I find the...

The romeo and Juliet situation sucks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - It's been a while since I have been on DearCupid and things were going great with my boyfriend of 1yr5mo. until last month when his father became so wrapped up in believing that my family, financial situation, and myself ulitmately were not good ...

My boyfriend's abusive and underwent a mental health evaluation. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - Ok so ill try and keep this short. My boyfriend of almost 2 years is CRAZY. He's abusive. Verbally, emotionally and recently, he's starting to get a bit psychically abusive. (pushing, shoving) We have a baby together. I love him but i hate him. He ...

My girfriend is pregnant and treats me badly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - what should i do? im 27 my girlfriend is 23 i've been with this girl 3 years. somedays are easy some are hard. for my birthday i always get a card and kiss and told i love you but thats it i always say " your not gonna say happy bithday " an...

Parent imposed curfew has destroyed my social life! Why have they turned against me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old but feel like a child as my parents treat me like one yet treat my younger brother like a adult. My parents brought my brother a house for him and his gf to live in but have raised my rent to pay for the mortage and the expensive ...

Husband has me running ragged and I'm mentally exhausted. How did I let this pile up on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - I'm mentally exhausted, i've been out of work for 6 months running my fiance's business. I really want to get back to my own job but I have no oompf. I believe I'm depressed. He has me running ragged. Seriously I do just about everything but dress ...

My doctor gets me hot and bothered!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - I just stumbled across these posts through google. I cannot believe what similarities I'm reading. I have such a "huge" crush on my doctor. He's always been a hot guy and I've been seeing him for about a year now. However just recently I can't se...