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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Dating 2 and a half weeks, he's tried every single time to have sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been dating for 2 and a half weeks. I really enjoy being with him. The problem is that he is trying to move to fast to the sex. He tried to sleep with me on the first date. I told him that I didn't sleep on first date. We hav...

I love him but always wind up breaking his heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Well, Ive been with this guy for about a year now, on and off. I love him, very much. And he loves me. But, there are some problems. Hes extremely clingy and possessive towards me, I really dont like it. And, its like I cant go out with friends...

I feel like I'm the only one who cares about the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't seen each other in one month as we go to different schools for college, five hours away from each other. He's coming up to see me next weekend but it seems like things between us has changed. He stopped calling me ...

I found that he'd looked up personals, call girls, etc. Should I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I dont know what to think or do. I found in the history on our computer that my boyfriend (my daughters father) had gone on craigslist and looked up women 4 men personals. There were call girls, phone sex numbers, 'just visiting' ads. I dont know ...

If he needs 'space' and 'time' - does that mean that he will actually sort his head out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Just a question on this whole I need 'space' and 'time' thing!! There's a guy who I like and I think he does really like me but its been a really weird couple of weeks - kinda started as bed mates and then getting closer. Anyway - I think that we ...

Ex exotic dancer can't stop sexualizing everyone in the world...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Hi ~ I have been an exotic dancer for over 1 years on and off. The industry jaded me for a long time, then finally I found love and all that changed. I have a good sex life, although too infrequent, w my partner.. although I can't seem ...

How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you know the person is worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - (Mod Note: Two questions in one.) How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you do this w/o feeling that you have compromised your values to be w/ someone? How do you feel intimacy and attraction to your partner by ag...

My online guy of a month wants to marry me! Is it really meant to be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - OMG..I have a problem I'm so confused idk what to do..so here I go!! Ok I met this guy through the internet and we have been talking for a while now close to a month but we talk on the phone and txt and send pictures of eachother but you see he ...

Should I keep trying and suffer the consequences of rejection? Or stay single forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I'm nearly 40. My last serious relationship was 7 years ago. I was celibate for 5 of them. 2 years of celibacy was "self-imposed" because I felt that I needed to concentrate on myself. Those 2 years were great - I really widened my circle of friends ...

What makes a woman change when she starts dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Whar is it that comes over a woman when newly in a realashionship? I've turned into someone I don't recognize anymore. I went from being cool, calm and quite "righteous". I have turned into a jealous and very insecure woman all of a sudden. I ...

Boyfriend's self esteem issues turned me off of him, now I just want to break up with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Hello, So about fiveish months ago I met an amazing guy (my boyfriend), attractive, nice and caring. A couple weeks into actually dating each other he would make comment's every now and then like “you’re beautiful, are you positive you like me". I w...

Follow up on emigrating to Oz while my mum has cancer; is the relationship over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - I am feeling more and more isolated by the day since I last posted my question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-mum-has-just-been-diagnosed-with-cancer.html. Thank you to everyone who replied the responses were very balanced and I have ...

I'm not comfortable with my girlfriend talking for hours with her guy friend...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is quite close to another guy friend of hers and they often talk for hours late at night/early in the mornings. im very uncomfortable with it and i've spoken to her about it but all she said was "sorry" and continued doing it. what ...

Is it normal that my boyfriend got mad because my ex posted on my Facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Just wondering if there's a bigger issue at hand or not. Had a wonderful dinner/movie with my boyfriend of almost 2 years and as we got out of the movie he checked his blackberry where he has facebook and it updates you when someone comments on a ...

He is friends with the girl he cheated on me with. Should I just get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Hi so I had been with my boyfriend for a year and a half when he cheated on me with a girl i was kinda friends with, he says its not cheating coz we werent together at the time coz we had been fighting a lot but i never knew we had actually broken ...

Why won't my family give me space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Okay I'm 20 years old and my family marks my every move. Today I went to visit my oldest sister and it was a mistake. Her boyfriend is a big trouble maker and she believes everything he says. One of his friends had a digital camera he wanted to ...

She constantly talks about marriage. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (M) - I've been dating this young lady for 2 years. She constantly talks of getting married. She has never been married , I've been married twice. One for 1 year, second for 21 years. As a divorced man I try to explain to her that a marriage takes more ...

Get back together or say goodbye?

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3 October 2009 (F) - Im now 3 months pregnant with my boyfriend/ soon to be husband and i found out that he was secretly talking to other girls behind my back. there was no touching, seeing or intamit things going on. but he was talking to them when we fought or when he ...

How do I get my friends to like my new guy and get along with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

3 October 2009 (F) - Any advice would be helpful please... I have been friends with a guy for about 3 years now. We get o n great and always have fun when were together.After we went for lunch yesterday we went back to his house. There was nobody home when we got ther...