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writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating 8 months now. We knew there was this huge connection from the moment we met. It was one of those chemistry things. From the day we met pretty much acted like we were dating. He got jealous at a party we were at on the second night because I was flirting with an old friend of mine. We just naturally took to each other. It was after 2 or 3 months we said 'I love you' for the first time. Which was a big thing for the both of us cause we have serious issues with that. Everyone who knows us as a couple says that we truly, truly love each other.The problem is, the places in our lives. We only have 2 years in age differences, but he is at that just starting college part of his life and I am ending my junior year of college. I know that I could spend the rest of my life with him, but I know that that isn't even on his brain at all. He is young and just discovering being adult. I cannot imagine my life without him, nor do I want him. The first part of our relationship we both were in the same town, then he transferred universities and we are now doing a long distance relationship...which for him is a big deal cause he doesn't believe those can work, but he tried for us and for me. I am so scared what the future brings because I know what I want and its him. I guess, I don't really know what my questions is...except what should I do? My friends say that I shouldn't worry because once he grows up, he will be on the same page. I love him and don't wanna lose him. What should I do?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (29 March 2009):
You can't worry about this.
It's in the future.
You have to trust to fate and think that if you are meant to be together then you will be.
Then just carry on and be a supercool relaxed girlfriend and make him see how great you are.
Good Luck!! xx
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