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writes:I trully love a girl, now she is married. We are very close friends also, but I don't know that she loves me or not. How I know that she loves me or not. We are talk through phone just as a friend. In this situation what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): thanks for giving suggestions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): Anonymous, a man does not dwell on a woman who is married. It is unhealthy and unproductive. Don't cause yourself further pain. And you should not cause her discomfort, either. Friendship is one thing, but if you remain carrying a torch...and let it be known, it can only cause problems. Get on with your life and find someone of your own. You may have pain now, but you must let it go. You are young and your life is ahead of you. Do not ask this woman about how she feels toward you. If you still communicate, just wish her the best and tell her you will always be her friend.
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reader, rugmonkey  +, writes (8 July 2009):
In this situation, you should swallow your feelings and continue to be a friend to her. She's married. If you were married to her, would you want someone else to step in and unsettle things by proclaiming love to your wife or yourself?
This ship has sailed. Try to move on with your life.
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