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I am pregnant and in love with a man who is engaged.

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Question - (29 January 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *ellylouise2007 writes:

Hi. well i am still in love with the this guy who has a girlfriend who lives in south africa. he told me he couldnt answer my questions till he had seen her! well he went in october while he was away i tried to move on with my life i even started seeing a new guy but when he came back i melted and started things up with him again! he is now engaged to her in south africa. i have asked him how he feels about me and he sadi he has deep feelings for me but is not sure what he want. i tried to break it off but i cant because i love him so much, now though things are more complicated because i am having his baby! help

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A female reader, xxmissxx United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2008):

xxmissxx agony auntWow, its almost like im reading my own story!

lol. I'm going through almost the same situation! how odd!

Well, I told the guy when I was pregnant and he didnt want to know because he was going to propose to the missus.

He said it would be best for him stay away, I didnt wanna be with him, I just gave him the option to be a good daddy.He turned it down.

Now I feel my huge bump and feel the life inside moving around so innocently and feel nothing but pure love for this child. we don't need my babys dad and never will because I'm all that baby needs in the whole world.

You can tell this guy hes going to be a daddy, but if he's already proposed to her, not to come to you. Hes got too much baggage to let go of now. If you wanna keep this baby (which is entirely your choice) then you've got some responsibilitys to take on. But beleive me it'll make you so much of a better person doing this without him, because if he really did agree to get rid of his fiancee' and be with you, could you honestly trust him not to do to you, what hes done to her? I couldn't. And wouldnt wanna risk him doing that while our babys around either. It's sad and yes it's upsetting because your on your own for a while, but belive me it's better than going through what his fiancee' has gone through, isn't it?

Good luck sweetheart I really do mean you all the best with this, and if you wanna mail me and let me know what youve chosen to do, I'd like to hear from you.

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