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*evilish Angel
writes:My boyfriend just moved to Dallas a few months ago. We text each other every single day. I respect him by telling him where I'm going and with who I'm going with. However, there have been times when he fails to mention that he's going somewhere until he's already out. And he goes with his female friend who is supposedly his best friend. I trust him enough to not be suspicious.Today, he sent me a forwarded chain message. No big deal right? I ask him who sent it to him and he said it was a girl named Jessica. I asked who Jessica was and he said that she was a cheerleader from Michigan. I asked how he knew her by and he said from myspace and that he used to 'talk to' her before he met me.There are many meanings for the words 'talk to'. It could just literally mean he had talked to her. However, why would he say 'talked to her before me'? Does that mean that he had dated her before? I asked him, "So she wants to get back with you huh?"He says that he never even dated her. I explained why I would assume that 'talked to' meant date and he just blew it off. I got upset by this and I know it might be me making a mountain out of a mole hill but can someone tell me I'm being retarded or are my fears based on something possible?
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (25 January 2008):
Devilish Angel is verified as being by the original poster of the question Its because I have gotten...hurt in the past that I am ubercautious. I think you're right, moviefan. Thank you for helping me with my unreasonable jealously.=)
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (24 January 2008):
 It may be possible but does it really matter if he dated her in the past, and yeah if he did he lied about it and he may have personal reasons he did so maybe she cheated on him while they were together. And just doesnt want to talk about it. A lot of guys have the bad habit of not wanting to talk about there past problems. But he may have never done anything with her and she may be a friend from the past, and they still talk once in a while.
Nice metaphor for you "sometimes a window is just a window, not a hidden religous meaning" Sometimes things are just as said nothing more. Yeah you want to be s little cautious but you cant let things get out of hand.
So dont go off on him or anything, your best choice will be to drop it. Unless you find out that he is fibbing about it.
Good luck with everything.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (24 January 2008):
It may be possible but does it really matter if he dated her in the past, and yeah if he did he lied about it and he may have personal reasons he did so maybe she cheated on him while they were together. And just doesnt want to talk about it. A lot of guys have the bad habit of not wanting to talk about there past problems. But he may have never done anything with her and she may be a friend from the past, and they still talk once in a while.
Nice metaphor for you "sometimes a window is just a window, not a hidden religous meaning" Sometimes things are just as said nothing more. Yeah you want to be s little cautious but you cant let things get out of hand.
So dont go off on him or anything, your best choice will be to drop it. Unless you find out that he is fibbing about it.
Good luck with everything.
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