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When we meet it's great but it feels like he doesn't make the effort...should I say something??

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Question - (24 January 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 weeks but we hardly see each other. I have 6th form and he has just dropped out of university and is looking for a job so it isn't that easy to.

So i only really see him at weekends and sometimes not for long however when i do manage to see him - after i've made the arrangement which i always do - its great together.

The thing is it feels to me that he doesn't make an effort in that area but does at other things. Both of us haven't really had relationships in the past and we both kinda new at it.

He has always said that he wants me to say when we meeting but it feels as though sometimes like he cant be bothered. When we do meet up tho its really good and we both are very comfortable around each other.

Should i say anything to him about it - or just keep making the arrangement to meet myself?

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A female reader, XxAngelDust89xX United States +, writes (25 January 2008):

XxAngelDust89xX agony auntAsk him to pick a place for yall to meet one time and see what he does.

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