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female
age
30-35,
*aria14r
writes:My baby's dad, who was in jail for 1 year and a half, came out already. He makes me mad because he tries to say that he has right over me and my son when i was the one taking care of me and my son and him and i still am. My baby's dad don't work; he tries to spank my son but i don't like that especially because he hasn't been taking responsibility with him. He has no right to say that my son needs to be disciplined when my son is only 2 years old. He has no right on trying to discipline him; thats not even the way to discipline him. He gets violent when he's drunk, he never gets violent sober. About a month ago we got into a fight because he was drunk so i kicked him out and like about 2 days later he calls me and tells me that he's going to try to stop drinking and he hasn't drank as much anymore but i still don't want to be with him. I feel bad because he is on parole and he has no where to stay except somewhere about 1 hour away. He says he don't want to be without me and my son but i want to be alone. I don't want no man. I loved being alone with my son. What should i do? Please help me.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 January 2008):
 I don't think you need to feel bad about not having live there with you and your son. Let him find his own place. Let him visit his son but you have every right to live alone on your own terms. He doesn't sound like a particularly great role model anyway.
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