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30-35,
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writes:Me and this guy have been friends since we were in the 4th grade; from 4th grade to 8th we had a little thing for each other but never really did anything about it. Now in 12th grade we are closer than ever. We are a group of best friends and him and I are the closest. About a month ago he told me he has feelings for me and would like to talk as more than friends to see what will happen. I said yes and we talked. I started having real strong feelings for him. We went to school shows together holding hands and holding each other and all that and it felt perfect. Than about a week later he told me i'm like a sister to him and it feels weird talking to me in a different way, so we broke up. Now about a week ago in the middle of the night he text messages me telling me he loves me and wants to see me right away. The next day our other best friend tells me that my friend told him he wants to be with me and he can't stand not being with me. So he asked me out again and i said yes but only if he was serious and not to back out again because it hurt me last time. He said no its serious and he really wants to be with me. The weekend went perfect together on the phone and everything tuesday at school he starts acting weird. He tells our other best friend to tell me that he is not ready to be with me because hes confused because when hes with me he feels like hes not ready but when hes not with me he likes me a lot and wants to be with me. Now here i am again hurt. And i've noticed each time this happens we don't become as close as we were. Now i don't know what to do because i am heart broken and still have feelings for him. He also made it clear to my friend that for him i will give a 3rd chance even though i said i wouldn't so i think he will ask for a 3rd chance but i don't know if i would give it...so what should i do in this situation because hes a good friend of mine and we said we would go to prom together.
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reader, hottieluvr  +, writes (5 April 2008):
ok. relax. he may be a great friend but hes just a guy. even if you still like him dont say yes again. If anything go for a friends with benefits kind of thing. i dont know you but i dont think that your friends want to see you hurt agin. its not fair what hes doing to you and you shouldnt have to take that from him. there are other guys who would probably love to stay going out with you and want you all the time. Good Luck!
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