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Archived questions from: 27 August, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't understand what he wants and his behavior is hurting me. Is he playing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am a married woman that cheated the husband for the first time with this guy(36 yrs old) I have been talking to for 7 months. During the 7 months he called me every single day and our conversations lasted more than 1 hour in average. We had sex ...

I hurt the girl I like, I tried to apoligize to her and she just ignored me. I don't know what else to do. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I have a problem that I am unsure how to handle. I am 31 years old, and I have never had a girlfriend. I had a close friend in high school and that was about it. I never really was looking for anyone, and was pretty much content on spending my ...

How do I stay gone from him once I'm gone?? I keep coming back to him as I miss the good things that have been.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have been in an mostly emotional- sometimes physically abusive relationship for 7 years. We have 3 kids together- I have left this man at least once a year b/c I get to the point where I am so sick of being called a b____ and fat____ or dumb or ...

I don't want to have sex ever, which is making her mad at me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I've been with her for 4 years already, and I'm 29, and she's 27. She and I love each other really really much. She's mad at me for not making love with her. She thinks she's not beautiful for me. I keep on telling her she's the most beautiful and ...

I'm haunted by things that have happened to me and now my mind is totally confused! Can someone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am in a total confused situation. I have been through a lot of problems, still it seems that my mind never learns from my experiences.... I guess my story is gonna be a bit long and boring but am gonna tell u my problems My father had always b...

How do you officially break up with someone and should I in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Hi, So I've been with the same guy for a year and we've gone thru a lot...i stuck by his side even wen he claimed he wasnt over his ex, i stayed with him when he told me he wants to live with his ENTIRE FAMILY after marriage (3 bros, a sis, a b...

After 2 years, she confesses to me she has cheated with her step-brother. I feel the whole time together was a lie now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I have been with a women for almost two years and finely after almost to years she has came out with the truth. that the first month we got together she had cheated on me with her step brother. i think its wrong i mean step brother or not they ...

I don't want to hurt the guy that I'm with but I think I still love the ex that broke my heart. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - last year,i was with this guy that i really loved..he broke my heart,it was hard forgetting him even that i've never forgot him!but it took me a lot of time to get used to the idea that it was over between us..every guy i met was like an enemy to ...

How can I help him see how he is ruining not only his life by using and dealing drugs, but how he is also destroying our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - hey ive been with my boyfriend for about a year now. he has started dealing drugs which doesnt bother me but he is also using. he has got himself into alot of debt and he is so stressed and angry and i feel like he is pushing me away. he keeps ...

Girlfriend wants kids but I don't, as I already have 2. I'm afraid she will leave me as warned.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I am a divorced father of two children, 11 and 9 years old. My current girlfriend has never been married and would like to have children. She has pretty much given me an ultimatum, "have another child with me or our relationship is over." Quite ...

She doesn't love me any more and she's doesn't even feel guilty about her behavior! How do I get revenge?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - This is a bit of a lengthy story, but I think the context of it all is important. My girlfriend and I just broke up this last Sunday. We've been living together for over a year and a half and things were great until about 2 months ago... I ha...

How come I am not as hurt by his horrible behaviour as I thought I would be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - a guy who has lied to you and lead you on for almost a year..has used you to get over someone else only to get back with that person. and then throw it in your face after wards..and talk about you badly to his associates when you've done nothing but ...

I constantly chase her and am the only one with initiatives, which makes me feel unwanted, unprioritised. How should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship with a girl i care very much about. I believe she cares about me as she has told me but she is totally oblivious to making any effort in the relationship where it really counts and believes that just by turning up at the ...

My fiance went out on her "hen night" and denies giving oral to this bloke, as I was told. I can't tell if I want to continue to be with her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I hop you can help as I dont know what to do. I'm about to get married next month but my fiance did something horrible to me and i just cant tell if i even want to be with her anymore. She went on her hen night last week and her and her mates go...

Not really physically attracted to him anymore!! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship with my bf now for about 5 years. We both really love each other and he is a great guy. However, lately I've been feelin like he's not very good-looking. My bf is about 5'7 and very skinny. Also he's only 25 and...

I am addicted to looking at perfect men, and can't stop fantasizing! It's upsetting my boyfriend, how do I stop?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have a problem.. I cant seem to stop checking out other men... whenever a handsome man enters my field of vision I am transfixed. I love the look of a strong toned torso, muscular arms, a nice butt, and a handsome face... I am like a drug addict ...

The differences between us are causing doubts to creep into my mind and poison my feelings about this relationship. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 136 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Hello there, I've been dating a great man for 2 years now but as my other friends are getting married (and I have no intention of doing so anytime soon) I wonder if my guy proposed what would I say...And it would probably be no, and I'd be off r...

His porn watching is affecting our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years, and for at least 7 or 8 months he has been sneaking watching free internet porn. some real raunchy stuff. I realized it when i would walk inthe room and he would always shut the screen down. When ...

Am I being unreasonable about my boyfriend going out drinking without me when he has a DUI and has lost his driver's license?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Am I being too unreasonable with my live in partner? My boyfriend moved in with me the beginning of July, mostly for financial reasons because we both quit our jobs and wanted to work at a lucrative sales position that takes about three months to ...

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar with bad teeth. What do I do?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have 2 major problems with my boyfriend of 7 years and need to vent. he is a LIAR. He lies about everything from stupid to serious. He'll tell me that a friend's video game system broke and i'll find out a few weeks later that it didn't and by ...

I'm unsure about my relationship, I feel like I don't deserve her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 136 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I dont know what to do anymore. I have been with my girlfriend for a 1 year and 8 months now. When we first started going out she told me about her past some parts of it I wasnt to happy hearing about and from that time on wards it has been aff...

My fiance was in bed with another woman... he says she was for me because I'm bi! I said no, he went to bed with her anyway. Do I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I want to know how to trust a man again after he has lied to me. I live with my fiance for months and I came home early to find out that he was in the bed with another woman telling me he was bringing her home to me ---because I am bisexual. After ...

I am afraid of jepordising the relationship because of my jealousy/insecurity issues over the amount of partners she's had

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - Hey there, im a 19 year old guy just about to head off to uni in a couple of weeks, and after having thought that id remain single during my gap year after some very negative experiences (including a split in a long term relationship, some mistakes ...

Lack of self esteem is causing problems for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I just told my boyfriend about my lack of self esteem and why I tend to push people away including him... and why I'm constantly crying... he said we'll talk more about it... What should I be expecting from him... as far as treating me righ...