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Archived questions from: 3 August, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel I'm going mad ~ scared I'll get into trouble with the law for texting. I have never broken the law, but he did!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - This time last year my ex partner and i split up. we had lived together almost 6 years but before i met him i owned my own terrace house, no mortgage - silly me sold it and put the money into the joint house. He met someone else and systematical...

I can't lose her! I love her more than ever before! Help me get her back, please.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

3 August 2008 (M) - i have been dating my g/f for 4 years before we broke it off. we have a 2 yr old little girl. i have cheated on her alot after the break. my love for her is more than i ever had for her since we met, i cant lose her. Please send me advice to get h...

Will I ever trust again? How do you get on with your life when you are this broken inside? Are there good men who don't cheat and hurt the people they love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend left me for another woman after telling me I was the love of his life. I had finally learned to trust him after another man I was engaged to cheated on me numerous times. I thought this last boyfriend was different and he was so good to ...

The break up came as a surprise as I don't know of his motives. Please help me understand and get over this kick.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just split up out of the blue after 7 months together. I say it came as a surprise but it shouldn't have done really. The past couple of months he hasn't wanted to touch me and has pushed me away if I have gone to hug him ...

Should I be angry or am I to blame? surely he is at least guilty of giving me mixed messages, so why is he blaming me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - Should I be angry or am I to blame? In the last six months my relationship of over a decade ended - badly. I turned to a friend from my past for solace as he too had just come out of a three year relationship. He had pursued me over a number of ...

Abused by cousin who now lives in our house! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

3 August 2008 (M) - me and my sister wer staying at my aunties house each evening after school because she was our baby sitter she had 2 children, my 2 cousins who wer 3 and 4 years older than me. my cousin C was 3 1/2years older than me and she would always bul...

I'm heartbroken and a doormat when it comes to my ex. What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - I dont really know where to start, im just heartbroken and I need to talk to someone...so here goes Me and my ex have been on and off for about 10 years (im 28 hes 31), we have had about 4 breakups in that time, mainly because he wants to be sing...

Why do I like my friend when she continues to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - ok sorry this is quite long and a bit complicated..but here goes! I used to be good friends with a girl two years below me who gets on my bus...let's call her A. A used to hang out with my group of friends last year, as she fell out with some of...

I really like him but is he worth all that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - help! I have a madly big crush on this lad. And in the past hes a big crush on me. A couple of months ago though, he started going out wth someone else, and ignored me for 5 weeks. Then his gf made up a rumour to make me jealous. and he found ou...

I feel like everything is going downhill at the moment...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - i feel like everything is going downhill for me at the moment. me and my mum keep falling out, and i mean proper massive arguments about stupid things that i have or havent done. and my love life is even worse. if i'm honest, i'm lonely. i h...

My boyfriend is trying to hook another girl up with his mate, but I don't like it and I'm feeling jealous.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - i'm with my boyfriend for 7 mounth and we never had problem til now i know he loves me and i love him 2. but i feel like his losing his love for me.and one day i got mad at him for talkin to other girls.and he say'i'm realy sory but this time i c...

My fiance's grieving is hurting our relationship. Is it normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

3 August 2008 (M) - Hello all, My fiance's dad past away two weeks ago. I have never been through the death of a loved one meanless to say I have no references to help her out. We live in Florida and her dad past away where he lived in California. We flew the...

Do I go with him and risk getting hurt or trust my instincts and stay away from him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - Heya, Theres a guy who says he likes me. Im two years younger than him and quite shy (not really that experienced tbh) and I want to believe him, but I can't. Its because of the way he's been with girls in the past, he's used them and hurt them (wh...

I'm scared he might use me again or want to see me for all the wrong reasons!...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - ok there's this dude that always trys to hook up with me but we did some stuff in his room once but it was a one time thing i thought that he was into me and he would ask me out well the next day he didnt say anything to me and asked another girl...

I'm not sure if my patrner is serious about me. He also smokes, drinks and does drugs. Should I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for over two years. He is sixteen years old than me and has two children, the youngest of whom is fifteen. He says‘I don’t do marriage’, and that he will never marry me. He refuses to meet my family [I only see them a few ...

Will I ever fall in love with him or am I just waiting around for nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - I am 16 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now.For the 1st couple of months our relationship was wonderful but somewhere along the line he started putting me down an disrespecting me.But lately things have gotten better.So my ...

She's back; a royal pain in my butt...and I can't shake it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

3 August 2008 (M) - Lately, I've been sort of dating a woman who I used to date a couple of years ago, but it didn't work out. In fact, she proved to be one of the worst dates I've ever had. So why are we together again? Well, it's a matter of she's my best f...

A complicated 8 years...when is it time to throw in the towel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - I'm writing in search of advice for my present situation. I am 26 years old and have been living with my boyfriend for the past 8 years. Both of our families consider this more like a marriage, which I agree with because things have gotten so ...

She says she wants God in her life more than me and that her "prophet" told her that I will destroy her! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

3 August 2008 (M) - Hello i'm 17 and the girl ive been talking to for about 4 months is same age. when we meet we hit it off so well, everything was so perfect for months. we both really like each other but wanted to focuse more on college. shes going to a christaion ...

I'm married but lonely! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 50 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - I am married with children and I am unhappy. I am not thinking about cheating or anything because I don't think thats fair, but i find myself fantasizing about being in a happy relationship where my husband cares about me. He is not directly mean to ...

After several, awful relationships, I met and moved in with a very nice, caring, wealthy man, but he has changed, no sex drive, no romantic overtures, I am unhappy, but with four kids, I can't leave, what do I do, he tries to change but then reverts,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - I moved in with my partner last year and since living together, he has changed from someone who was romantic affectionate to someone who sleeps and has a low sex drive. My past relationships were awful, i was married for 13 years to a man who always ...

Ten years of a sexless marriage, we are basically roommates, I care for him, but I am considering an affair, would I be wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - I have been married for 19 years. And for the past 10 years me and my husband stopped having sex. I have tolerated this sad condition all these years. I just do it myself whenever I want a release. Our relationship has deduced to a roommate status. ...

My daughter's father--my ex--gets on my nerves.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - hello my daughters father my ex gets on my nerves showing up at inapproiate times he has a girlfriend we lived together 9 months I find out the hard way how cold he is he is all abouthavig sex most times he visits sometimes I dont let him...

I want to try and salvage my relatioship. But I'm finding it hard to stay with him. I think I may have commitment issues.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - I am having doubts about my future with my partner. I have real trouble adjusting from the honeymoon phase of a relationship so none of my relationships have lasted more than a year but I really want this one to work. However, I am beginning to ...

How can I get over the physical and mental abuse of my last boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - My last boyfriend abused me. He was emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive. If i did not want to have sex he kicked me in the chest. Because of that abuse I am having lumps show up in my breast. I am seeing a doctor about the phycially ...

I told my boyfriend I didn't feel the spark I used to. I said it to scare him, but it's gone wrong. How can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) - Hey people i truly need ur help. I have messed my relationship. Well today i did tell my boyfriend that i no longer feel the spark i used to feel but i still love him. I didnt tell him my reason behind it. Well my issue is this my boyfriend he is in ...