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Archived questions from: 20 August, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend prefers porn to sex with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (24) and I (22) have been together for almost 2 years. I have never liked the fact that he looks at porn and he has cut back for me. Which I really appreciate. But lately I have been begging for sex and he's constantly turning me ...

Jealous, Insecure, Contolling, Possessive, Clingy Girlfriend (Who I love with everything)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend fight almost every day, and most of the time, its about the smallest little thing. The fights get loud and emotionally charged. We have identified a few of the problems with both of us. One of them is that we both get angry or ...

She isn't ready to move in with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 137 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - ok my situation is this i am with a girl i love dearly and she loves me. I am 24 and she is 19, she is about to move from where we have lived with my dad for 8 months to university. I am willing to move with her and get a place with her but she...

Everything I touch turns to dust! How do I start over without losing anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - i dnt want to carry on! how do i get away from everything? everything being the situations in life. i really wish that i could start my life over again meet the same people but do different things i know this is impossible so how do i start afres...

I'm afraid I'm pushing him away because my self-esteem has been damaged by my parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - i have been a 3 year relationship with a wonderful man my problem is that all my life i have wanted to be accepted by my father and mother especially my father and every relationship i have been in i looked for father figures in them this ...

How can I make sure the relationship makes it past her three month mark?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have hit the "three month" mark. She said when we first started dating that she always had issues at this point and rarely had a relationship make it past three months. However, she said she's falling for me and she can see ...

Could you give me help with my harsh problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - ok here goes, i have been with my girlfriend over 8 months now, at the start of the relationship i slept with someone else and also kissed another girl, ii told her about this and we broke up then decided we still wanted to try, then she kissed ...

My boyfriend is somewhat of a control freak. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I have LIVED with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I'm almost 22 and he's almost 25. He's somewhat of a control freak I guess you can say. When we first got together everything was good..of course. As I started making friends and those friends wanted ...

I have this urge to sleep with another guy to show my boyfriend how much it hurts to not be the only person in his life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend "hung out" with two other women when we had started going out. I had told him how much I didn't like him being alone with another woman but he didn't listen. So I have this strange earge to go and sleep with another guy just to make him ...

Is he interested in me even though he says "nothing's there"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I have this friend, a guy, that I have known for over 2 years now. We are very good friends and get along great. We would hang out and drink and talk and have soooo much fun. He would get a little touchy feely with me, but that was ok. He was ...

How long will it take until he trusts me again and is there anything I can do to help the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I cheated on my bf and then told him about it a week later. We're still together and trying to work things through and for the most part we're better than ever. However he has to be with me everywhere I go, and if he's not there I have to ring him ...

Was I wrong for getting mad because he didn't take me with him and the other motorcyclists?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately. He's been wanting to go motorcycle riding with his friends he met at work, fine...Well, I WISH I could be fine with it. It's not the point of him going bike riding, it's he wants to go late ...

Am I stupid for staying? My wife's pregnant, we don't know who is the father, the other guy lives with us.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - Hi I am 26 years old I have been married almost 2 years now. well let me start off by telling you my faults so that you might understand her side of it. Before we got married I started talking to a girl from work, but never did anything sexually ...

Why does he tell me he loves me to then only ignore me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 91 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - ok heres the story, i have been going with this guy for the past 18 months, i very much love him, more than i have loved anybody, but in the past we have both done things 2 hurt each other, we both have cheated on each other, and we split up for ...

Recently my girl avoids kisses, cuddles and sex. But none of her lies point directly to cheating?...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. we were always close and she was always happy and cheery. we had a great sex life and kisses and cuddles were romantic and nice. However recently she has been very snappy with me at the slightest of thin...

It looks like he's having his cake and eating it, and I just don't know what to do for the best!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 140 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - In March this year I started talking online to a guy. It turned out that he was the year above me at school and lived 2 minutes walk from my house. (he had changed so much I didnt recognise him). We met up a month later and got on like a house on...

I have already moved on from my ex, should I be friends with her or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - THE GENDER IS WRONG IM A MALE me and my ex went out for 6 months we took a break because she had bulimia and derpression. she initiated the break and said we would go back out when she was through. the break took place on june 1. so the rest of t...

My boyfriend thinks it's his job to parent me on chores. Is this normal male behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having some issues. He thinks its his job to parent me on chores. I have been doing better to remind myself to do things since I also have other things I focus on like school, and job hunting. He says I have gotten better then ...

When I met my ex he didn't have a job / career, and hasn't progressed much since. Should I try and work things out with him after a failed relationship with another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - i have had quite a rocky two years. Two years ago i was in a relationship which my parents didnt approve of coz the man had no job and no career and wasnt making any money. I loved him tho so i made the decision to be with him and decided to give...

I want to have children but we never have sex anymore as he has performance issues due to his drinking, I feel my time is running...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - My husband is a high functioning alcoholic, who only drinks on the weekends, but his drinking is starting to affect our relationship, emotionally and sexually, and his health. He has never been violent but is becoming more accident prone due to ...

He WANTS me to initialise sex and I have a hard time doing so due to my experience of having been rejected in the past...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I was married to a man that I loved very much, but when it came to sex, he would always reject me if I initiated sexual moves towards him. I am now engaged to a wonderful guy, but when it comes to sex, he WANTS me to initialize sex and I have a hard...

Why did my girlfriend over-react to an innocent comment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - So i've been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now, i'm 17 yet this relationship progressed alot and we were close together. Me and my girlfriend got drunk yesterday (I know, i'm underage) and I felt it in quite a bad way. I was with my girl...

We became very close, but now it's all gone complicated. How can I get things back to how they were?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - we've know each other for like 10 months. Before that, once in awhile we will hang out together with some other friends.I never taught of liking her and stuff like that but at 3 weeks back, we are getting closer, sometimes she asked me out, ...

I caught my mother cheating on my father, she also lies on my father, I love her as she is my mom, but I have hateful feelings towards her, how can I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I have had a real big problem with my mother ever since i caught her cheating on my father that was when i was twelve and now im 18. The thing is she will lie to any one that will listen. She says my dad used to beat her. He would never ever hurt a ...

He all but ignores me at work-why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I am a tour guide and last year I met a guy working in one of the places I visit regularly. He is a very friendly person anyway but always made a big fuss of me, giving me a big welcome whenever I showed up, which my clients liked very much. We ...

Does your boyfriend watch endless hours of tv?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Does your boyfriend watch endless hours of tv? I am so sick of it! It is on from the minute he gets home, until he finally falls asleep! We used to have fun together, but now I stay in the living room, on my computer and he stays in the bedroom ...

House Trouble: How do I not be the bad guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I am 19 and me and my bofriend just bought a house together 3 months ago, now his friend got kicked out of his house and my boyfriend said he could live with us without asking me. I feel like my privacy will be taken away what should I do and say ...

I'm a young guy with sexual problems. My girlfriend is getting frustrated. How do I fix this

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - I've been having sexual problems lately. I've been with this woman for 4 years and never had anything like this happen, but for the past two or three months or so I've been going soft during sex and sometimes we have to stop altogether because I ...

Is anyone else just as afraid to be alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Here I am again - I thought I was making progress and I know that the boyfriend is NO GOOD for me and I deserve better so why do I still want to get attention from him? He makes me sick! Like last night he said he would call back and he didnt the...

How can I cut free my widowed mother's apron strings?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - hi i'm 26 and i want to move away with my boyfriend down south, to grad school, but i daren't tell my widowed mother whom i currently still live with. all of our family live in the same village and always have. mum and dad stayed near thei...

My son is bullying his pregnant girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - my son is bullying his pregnant girlfriend, she is always upset because of what he is doing, i dont know what to do, i was with his abusive father for 2o years and my own head is messed up. my son always said he would never be like his father but it ...