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writes:my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years, and for at least 7 or 8 months he has been sneaking watching free internet porn. some real raunchy stuff. I realized it when i would walk inthe room and he would always shut the screen down. When I would ask waht he was doing he would just say "nothing".Obviously I became suspicious, so I started checking the history.sure enough all porn sites teen age girls college girls live web cam you name it it. I confronted him about the issue, he said he would not do it any more. Then 4 days later I noticed he was back on again. I expressed how this behavior makes me feel and he continued to do it anyway. All this has definitely effected our relationship. Not sure what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): my ex-boyfriend did the exact same thing and i reacted the same way you did! i think most guys (females too) do watch porn. some may be curious, or some want some spice in their life, or some may have a real addiction! my advice is to find out why he likes it and don't make him embarrassed of it. cause my ex stopped after i kept trippin about it but then eventually started cheating on me! after that i was done and i started watching myself...and now i love it and i watch it with my boyfriend. he loves the fact that i will watch it with him and it's actually a healthy way to spice up our sex life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): i went through the same thing with a guy i use to date. some guys are really addicted to sex and so they cheat, watch porn, etc...some guys want some spice in their sex lives so they find it in porn. i use to be disgusted with porn and use to yell at him about it all the time...eventually he stopped but end up sleeping with some easy girls. so i was done with him and started watching porn myself and really getting into it! i watch it now about 2 or 3 times a day and I watch it with the guy I'm with now. we watch different kinds of porn and we even role play or imitate what they are doing. porn can be a healthy way...but you should find out why he likes it and either embrace it or tell him to get some help. you don't want to keep yelling at him and him lying/deny that he likes it because he probably will keep lying or may even cheat on you. i think in general most men do watch porn! and it's nothing to be ashame of.
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