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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Financial, Work Related and Family issues, is having this overwhelming effect on both of us. Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hey there dear cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for going on a year now. Here lately things have been rocky between us due to alot of things going on for both of us outside of the relationship. Financial issues, work related issues, and fami...

My boyfriend has started to ignore me and won't talk to me. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - hi. me and my boyfriend have been really happy until recently. we had a pretty gd relationship b4 but the only problem was that he never seemed to want to go out with me anywhere. recently my bf has started to ignore me and wen i try to tlk to ...

Should I drop a few hints or just forget about her and move on with my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - I need someone neutral's advice - I think I'm too close to the situation to be able to think clearly, and I don't know what the right thing to do is any more. My girlfriend and I have been living together for about 8 years, but recently we brok...

Some girls at my school are hating on me... how can I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Dear cupid... theres these girls at school that wont leave me alone... i was cool with them at the begging but some guy got in the way.. ever since theyve began hating me there whole lil click has started hating on me... i fought both of the twin...

Am I right to put my foot down about him texting these girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hi, needing a few opinions on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for not far off 4 years and its been great. Yet there has always been one thing that has worried me and makes me slightly paranoid and that is his constant texting with his girl...

How do I learn to honour myself enough to make the changes that need to be made, and still remain stable for my children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - How do I move on with my life when I'm not in love with my common-law husband of 15 years (don't think I ever have been). We have 3 young children together. He has been verbally and physically abusive with me over the years. Even as most rece...

He's 29 year old, non committed guy, who wants to stay with mum and dad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and its a nightmare, we love eachother but argue alot. Since I have known him he has never tried to talk about a future with me, we have been on holiday twice together. I am 25 still live at home...

Was his decision not to pursue a relationship because our circumstances? Or does he simply just not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I broke up with my ex after 11 years. We had lived together for that time and owned a house together, it was a very serious relationship. Four months later I bumped into an “old flame”. We’d never really “got it together” but over the course o...

Are good relationships hard work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I think I have too little experience to honestly answer this for myself, I'll explain a little why I'm asking. My bf of 4 years has developed an infatuation with another girl. He told her he loved her, but I'm not sure if he even knows if his feel...

I got back with him thinking he'd changed, but he hasn't at all! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend that i got back together with. i didnt know why i did, cause he really hurt me, but i still had feelings for him, but during the time we were not together i started liking my best guy friend. He is always there for me anyway, so i...

I am having trouble getting over her past. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has a sexual past, as do I. But for some reason hers bothers and haunts me. She's lived a much different life than me. She just got divorced about 2 years ago, and has been with 5 guys since. My mind can't stop picturing her past, It ...

I accused my boyfriend of cheating, but I was wrong. How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - i recently accused my boyfriend of cheating on me when i later found out he wasnt now he isnt talkin to me i cant live without him how do i get him back? please help...

He caters to his immature adult children to the detriment of our relationship. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - i need to get your opinion on how to sucessfully date an older man that is dysfunctional and his two children (married) are very dysfunctional. i have been dating him for almost four years and he still will not take up for me with his kids. ...

I am irritated with my girlfriend because of her flaws, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - I have a big problem. My girlfriend is lovely and everything but there are some things I don't like about her. I know this myght sound like bitching but most of the time she doesn't keep up her promise: she tries hard and everything but s...

How can I deal with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hi, i was in a 7 year relationship with someone i really really loved. I did everything i could for him, while he attended school and just when ever he didn't have anything. He would never do anything with me at all. He always acted liked he was ...

I hate how my friends act towards me just because I have a boyfriend..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - okay so i have a boyfriend. my best friends aren't in relationships so i'm the only one that is. but anyways when i'm with them they say stuff like "you would pick him over us anyday" and "karmas gonna come back to you when you need us" and i tell ...

I can't make sense of why a man could be so loving but not want to take the relationship any further. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Feeling confused after having sex with a colleague who I have been friends with for nearly 3 years. We never got together before, since both in long-term relationships but have always got on really well and there was chemistry. In brief, had wond...

Should I give things up just for him? I will feel compromised either way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I am 36 and met a guy a couple of years ago who is 4 years younger than me. I have been married before and it was the kind of marriage whereby I gave my all and my husband wanted no responsibility - consequently I put a lot of my own life 'on hold' ...

My boyfriend has serious depression problems, he is moody, angry, and I am having a hard time dealing with it, he wants to marry me, but I don't know, any suggestions that could help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfreind for a few years, not that age matters but I'm 41 and he's 52. He has been diagnosed with depresson a couple of years ago, anyway, I'm having a REAL HARD time dealing with it! I love him very much and he wants to marry ...

My sister probably seduced my fiancee, which may have caused him to have a breakdown, he is being treated, he also has an aclohol problem, I love him, I think he loves me, he wants to work this out, should I try to mend the relationship or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My fiance just told me he cheated on me with my older sister. I have been betryed by 2 people I loved and trusted. She wont admit it but he told me the truth. He had a brakdown after that and is in couseling at a hospital right now. He also has...

After an almost two year relatiuonship, my boyfriend and I broke up, he had commitment problems, and his job required a lot, I am devastated, how do I move on with my life?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me out of blue 4 weeks ago after a 1 year 9 months relationship. He moved away half a year ago (4 hours drive away) but come to see me every week (his job allows him to fly in or drive over). everything was going great ...

I'm 21 and he's 24. He doesn't let me stay out past 9pm! Talk about Curfew!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I've lived with my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm 21 and hes 24. He doesn't let me stay out past 9pm. He says it NOT a curfew but it really is. He says he'd feel better if he was there with me and my friends. That we can ALL go out together. When I...