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Archived questions from: 21 August, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He only wants to spend time with his friends and not with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - all my boyfriend wants to do is go out with his friends....he never wants to spend time with me a little while ago my boyfriend thought i cheated on him and he finally gave up and he forgave me for evrything and said sorry for not believing in me ...

How do I get that loving feeling back into my marriage of only 2 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - How do I get the dating feeling back into my marriage? I have only been married for 2 months. But I want that loving feeling like what we had when we were dating back. I know things change after you get married but I didn't think it would come ...

I have become very troubled by my husband actions, he has lied and cheated, I don't love him anymore and want him to leave, he refuses, even threatens to burn the house down with me and the kids inside, what do I do, I am frightened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Can any one help me! I have been married for 3 yrs and have 4 children from another relationship. when me and my husband first meet everything was great and he was fine about my children, but since we got married he has changed. he is always pic...

Two year relationship with a man I care for very much, but who lies and confuses me constanly, what should I do, move on or wait for him to fulfill his many promises, broken many times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Two years ago I started a relationship with a man a worked with who I thought I knew. I really, really admired this guy professionally and when he asked me on a date I was over the moon. Within a couple of months he moved in to live with me. I dont ...

We approached our daughter-in-law, about her children being distressed, over their father's verbal abuse, she distorted the situation, which resulted in a rift with our son, does anyone have any advice to help repair the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Almost a year ago, on a visit to our son and his family, his 2 children aged 12 and 13 asked us for help in dealing with their dad. The boy in particular was having a difficult time, being snapped at and criticised relentlessly (we had already seen ...

With my girlfriend for five years, want to marry her, do love her, but total confusion in the relationship, breakdown in communication and other things, need help, whay should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years now and this year was the year I was going to ask her to marry me, we're both 28. She recently came back from a night out with work and woke me to tell me that she and a guy from work had kissed. We ha...

Getting very mixed signals from him, I wonder if I should just ignore him all together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I had been out on a couple of dates with a guy I have known for a very long time. The third date involved him coming to my place for the weekend (he lived 60 miles away). We had a really nice weekend, went to the zoo, romantic dinners etc. As he ...

I thought he was untrustworthy. He thought I was too fussy. Who's right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - What do you think is happening in his head? I ended it for good with him at the begining of the year. He wanted to try again but i didn't want to. He had lied a few times and he is one of those guys you find hard to trust because he is quite se...

There's no spark with my current guy, but my ex turns me on.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I have a question. I'm in such a hard spot right now. I been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we should have broken up after the first week. I don't feel attracted to him anymore because he makes me so upset all the time. He is like a f...

My boyfriend likes watching S&M but not doing it. Where's the thrill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - My question is bout my boyfriend. We are both the same age. On the surface he looks just like any other guy, has a job and generally gets on with things. Very outgoing and great with people. Grew up in a normal family that likes each other and still ...

He says I'm great but he "can't get into it" and won't explain. What does he mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I liked a man for 3 years and we never dare approach each other until 6 months ago, we then saw each other most days, now he says im the nicest girl he ever met, kind, caring and gorgeous but he cant get into it and no longer talks to me other than ...

If I show interest, guys don't. If I back off, they come on strong. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I seem to have a re-occuring problem with all the guys i have dated. 19 years old and so far, all the guys ive dated seem to be so keen in the beguining when im not so sure about them as i am geting to knwo them. Therefore, i am not all over them ...

I was groped by my cousin and now I am scared of being alone and feel really dirty...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - i was groped by my cousin at the beginning of this year and it has messed up parts of my life. i find that i cant sleep at night every now and then because im scared of being alone and that a stranger, or my cousin, will come into the room and tak...

Seeing someone new: every time I touch him he tells me he has a lot on his mind and won't open up to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - hi my husband passed away in december an ive recently started to see someone who is 3 years younger than me but recently every time i touch him he tells me to get off he has said that he has a lot on his mind but he wont talk to me how can i sort ...

He doesn't want to commit--should I stay with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 6 months, he is 36 and i'm 32. When we first got together, he said he had issues with the whole 'girlfriend/boyfriend thing, and that he believed in us both being free to see other people if we wish. I am not that...

If he didn't care, why the such strong feeling of hatred?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Ok hi will someone please help..it wont be long..me and my ex broke up and 6 months after he was still tellin people he hated me etc..i see him in the pub tonite and asked him to talk..he said argh stop following me! bare in mind we havnt spoken in ...

I have a lot of trauma from my last abusive relationship even though I've tried my best to recover. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I came on here before and got some good balanced advice which was really helpful so I've come back again to ask about a problem. I feel really stuck ... in February my partner of 5 years walked out on me whilst I was unwell (it since transp...

I lost my best friend because I started to date her ex-boyfriend, now I am so sad, and I think I want to break up with my boyfriend to regain her friendship, should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - my best friends and i have been friends for 2.5 years. we have done alot of things together and gone through alot. we even live under the same apartment. her very first love, i was the cupid who match made them. both of them lasted for about ...

This guy hangs around me, tells vulgar jokes, and is basically creepy, he is also mentally challenged, and has been in a psych ward, I want him to leave me alone, but I don't want to crush his soul, what do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Hello everyone! My problem is with a friend I've had for about a year now. He make me EXTREMELY uncomfortable; so much in fact, that I dread seeing him. He'll call, text, or show up at my work every day. He'll sit at my work for like five hours, j...

I am best friends of a sort, with this girl, I give her advice, which she seems to forget, that I helped her, I feel used, should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - Well I know a girl.. And apperently I'm one of her best friends, however she has 5 other best friends 2 of which r boys, she used to tell me everything but now all she does is ask for their help and is so grateful and public about the help she ...

We have know each other for four years and have set a wedding date, but we argue all the time now, he acts immature, and I am confused, should I move on, or try harder, to get him to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 142 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - i have been with my fiance since highschool, so for about four years now. but it seems as though since we set our wedding date that we just get into constant arguements. i work so hard everyday at work to save and it seems like he rather be at home ...

I was with a man I truly cared for, but he was verbally abusive, we split up, now my confidence level is basically non-existence, I need advice on how to recover from the damage done to my pysche?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 142 days ago

How can I be a good girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 142 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I've recently got into a relationship with my friend of a few years. I've only had one previous boyfriend and that relationship ended after 2 years, and I've been single for a year. I feel like I've lost my ability to know how to be a good ...