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writes:last year,i was with this guy that i really loved..he broke my heart,it was hard forgetting him even that i've never forgot him!but it took me a lot of time to get used to the idea that it was over between us..every guy i met was like an enemy to me..at last i met a perfect guy for me so great and i think that i love him!and we've been together for 5 months ..suddenly the past comes back to me..the guy from the past came back!feelings came crawling back to me!i don't want to hurt the guy that i'm with but i think i love them both....what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, starismine1  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 The guy you think you used to love is someone you actually feel is your enemy. Whenever we still feel feelings for a guy that "breaks our heart" we have to look at the relationship more honestly. Did he have commitment issues? Did he really love you? It's so easy to want someone when you can't have them. Really search deep down and think about your past relationship. What is it you can't get over? Is it the sex, the attention, being wanted? How happy are you with your life? Are you only happy with a guy in it? This kind of drama plays in your life because of how you feel about you, and not because of how guys feel about you. So dig deep and find what you want for you in life.
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