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My fiance was in bed with another woman... he says she was for me because I'm bi! I said no, he went to bed with her anyway. Do I forgive him?

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Question - (27 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I want to know how to trust a man again after he has lied to me. I live with my fiance for months and I came home early to find out that he was in the bed with another woman telling me he was bringing her home to me ---because I am bisexual. After I told him I did not want her here, he went to bed with her anyway. I want to leave but I still got 4 months of rent. should I forgive or let it go?

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (27 August 2008):

Tremor agony auntSounds to me like your bisexuality was just a handy excuse for him to sleep around, and that's not on. If he was bringing her home 'for you', then why the hell was he banging her?

He's a complete bastard. I agree with Gecko, you need to get away from him. Kick him out if you can, you deserve better.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008):

Well hes a bastard...

Why do you have to go? Why don't you chuck him out - certainly deserves it.

I think you deserve better than that, you yourself have said that you want to leave. I suggest you dump him and chuck him out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008):

go ahead,get all the money you can for your 4 months rent

and pay it off as soon as possible.then get the hell out of

this relationship.just because you're bi is no reason why he

should feel like you're not good enough.you're with him,

aren't you?he thinks you're the one,so why would he do that.

dump his ass,and don't go back.having sex with another woman

for a stupid reason like that is just unforgivable.

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