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Now i'm about to date someone new, she wants me back.

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Question - (7 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *o_one_should_feel_that writes:

ok listen this problem is starting to get annoying.... look i have made a huge mistake..... i am male of 15 but this happened when i was 13....a year and a half ago....anyway.... i like this woman alot and she liked me back.... well after awhile of the flirting..like a week or so... we start making out ... and after about week of this we move to stronger things... i moved at her speed.....anyway like a day after we move on she stops talking to me ..... like we only did one thing and she said i will call you later but i gotta go shopping with my friends and i said ok......well the next day she avoided me all day ( at school) well it took me a little while to figure out she was running away from me ... it made me really sad... so i hold off and wrote her love letters and poems and tried my best to get her to at least talk to me .... well she kept at it and she kept leaving me when i tried talking to her just to find out what is wrong ........ 3 months later i tried talking to her again and so i trapped her in a hallway with the only way out was to walk by me ... its not like i was holding her or anything.....anyway i said why wont you talk to me? and i kept asking till she finially ran by me and screamed JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!! with a tone that will dam near break your heart..... later that night i did something that i regret and she knows what i did but i will only tell if some1 wants to know ... anyway..... after the school year i was really sad for half the summer till i got to talk to her for the last time she said she agreed to talk to me again and she was like leave me alone i dont love you anymore just leave me alone you stalker...... she hanged up and that was that... i got over her that night ...( she never read the notes/poems i know cus i hand gave her the note and she threw them away in front of me... anyway i had got over her and found some one else .... anyway me and this new girl love each other and tomorrow i will go one more date b4 i ask her out and give her a gift that i would let her keep even if she says no.... anyway like 5 minutes ago the first girl called and said she loved me again and she wants to go out with me again... well now i still love this first lady and we were going out but now i love this new girl and i couldnt just break her heart like this ... i think i love this new girl more but this other girl is brothering me and i need help advice will be accepted by me no matter what ..... i have been i really good advice giver but this one got to me and i cant fix this one by myself ... so i need help ......and the first lady said she likes me now cause she didnt relize how muched i loved her cause she never read any of the notes... but i put them up on myspace and her friend told her and showed her them .... and she had felt badand now she wants to go back out with me.......help????

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A male reader, no_one_should_feel_that United States +, writes (12 August 2007):

no_one_should_feel_that is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok i am still all mixxed up and confused ...... i still need help but no more help is given ....... so i am getting off cupid ...... for till my problems are solve ......bye

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A male reader, no_one_should_feel_that United States +, writes (8 August 2007):

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ok today i got a call from my new girl and she said she couldnt go out tonight cause of personal reasons..... it was like 5 minutes before the movie ... i was left broken hearted and she said she is sorry and she wont tell me what is wrong with her ... all i wanted to do is help... isnt a couple dating type thing were you talk bout stuff? cause that is what i always go by in a relationship...but she wont talk ... and i am starting to think that the girl before is a good choice ..... but i dont know what i should do .... help?

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A male reader, no_one_should_feel_that United States +, writes (7 August 2007):

no_one_should_feel_that is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for your reply ..... i think you are right she is chasing me around and like the atention.. but i will still like to here for more people...

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A female reader, Helen1986 United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2007):

Helen1986 agony auntThe first girl does not deserve you she only wants you now because you are with somebody else. She enjoyed you chasing her she enjoyed the attention, It made her feel good whilst it made you feel bad. She wants you back because she is scared of losing her confidence booster. She is not interested she will just do it to you again.

I suggest you concentrate on your new girl and shower her with love letters and poems. She will probably appreiciate them a lot more. Good luck xx

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