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writes:hi im in abit of a mess with my life,all my life i have been with men thinking they were kind caring men but they have never been they all have hurt me and beaten me.now im with a guy now and its complicated because at one point i used to have feelings for him and i dnt have as many feelings anymore i like this other lad but he is only 15 and its confusing because there are my children involved.i feel like i don't want to be here no more but i know i have to because of my children they need me.also i feel like my other half don't love me anymore and i don't know why i am feeling like this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thank you for your answers,
im still abit confused though but thank you anyway....
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reader, Myrah  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 To be honest with you girl some you have to stop and ask yourself what it is that you want. first what you are going through is just pure confusion and that need to stop NOW The truth is there is a part in you that need to be filled and completed and the only person that is able to do that is you and how you can do that is to first love you. my belief in life is that men is a gift to women and if a woman does not know how to love herself and honor herself I mean seeing the worth that she is that little empty spot in you will continue to crave to be fulfilled and you will always be looking at many different men to fill that void and they can't complete you unless you yourself able to complete yourself. you are so broken and I think NOW TODAY is the time that you start thinking about you and how you can get healing before you think of another man coming into your life. and 15 Year old come on girl what happened?? you are bigger and better than this. You lost touch with you and you need to find you and love you. Just try it
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 August 2007):
 HiA lad of 15?Here in the Uk thats illegal.How do you get involved with a 15 year old?What age are your children?You shouldnt stay with someone for childrens sake. Lots of us have tried that in time but if you dont love someone thats not actually very relaistic.But i would stay away from the 15 year old. Your children dont want to be having every tom dick n harry going through their lives, its fair enough not staying with someone for childrens sake but quite another to not be choosy and chose someone thats not likely to stick around... and a 15 year old?Geez.Good luck.C xxxx
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