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*gony87
writes:i met a guy on holidays 6 years ago we are both 20 and weve kept in touch since (with his mum mostly...men cant be bothered with pens and paper!) 2 weeks ago i went up to see him again...cutting the long story short the first 2 days were great we really got along he took me everywhere around where he lives, We kissed and cuddled all night Then on my forth day he argued with his mum about his attitude towards her and things changed he would hardly speak 2 me for 2 days i confronted him about it saying i travelled all this way to see him and hes acting like this but he said he wasnt taking it out on me his mum was just getting on his nerves! then on my last night things were back to normal we kissed and cuddled when we went to bed and things got quite heated (we didnt have sex) then at that point he got out of bed and said he was going to the bathroom, as i lay there waiting for him to come back i heard him getting into the spare bed!! i was mortified, he didnt even say he was sleeping in the other room. i know this sounds trivial but its really got me thinking what could have been the problem, im thinking was it something i did, had he gone off me in the space of minutes!! or did he just get nervous incase 1 thing led to another.please help!!! im going out of my mind!! thanks
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reader, sexi  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Hi,Gus are like that - they like to pretend that things never happened ( my bf does that) and we girls like to sort things out.Just hang in there and see what happens regarding the reply. No matter how difficult this is going to be hang in there (6 years is a long time to just let this go so easily) Give it some time and things would get better.I really admire your determination to have a long distance relationship. That is a very difficult thing and most people wont last (i know i didnt) Understand that that may be a factor with regards to his actions. Like you said the opposite sex is so confusing - this guy was probably sad/depressed that your stay was coming to an end and that was his reaction to his feelings (Guys have a terrible way of showing what they are feeling).Take care. Mail me if you wanna talk and let me know what has happened!Good luck
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reader, agony87 +, writes (7 August 2007):
agony87 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for that, i have wrote him a letter hopefully he will reply and tell me what was up. I also forgot to say the next day when he slept in the spare room he acted like nothing happened! the opposite sex are so annoying arnt they??!!
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reader, sexi +, writes (7 August 2007):
Hi, the only way for you to get an any answers would be for you to speak to him. You need to be honest with him and tell him how you feel after the way he has reacted. He would probably tell you the reason for his action. Communicate with him. It is also possible that he felt embrassed about his argument with his mother and that is the reason for his changen in attitude. Assure him that you love him and that you really want to be with him and that if he continues to keep you in the dark regarding his action, then things are not going to go very well. Speak to him and you would get your answers.Take care
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