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anonymous
writes:I'm 18,and have been going out with an older,family friend..[a friend of my Dad's] for about four months now.I'm seeing him discreetly,they have no idea about him.He's 49.The sex is like..incredible!Older men really are better in bed!I love everything we do,but he wants me to have anal sex with him.I want to..but it like kind of scares me,as he is well endowed.I'm scared if I say no,I might lose him.What should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 January 2016):
 If you say no and you lose him, well then that means he is using you for sex. You are 18 and therefore you are an adult, however this man is a friend of your dads and he has broken the trust off that friendship. When you say you are going out with him, do you both go on dates? Does he treat you well or are you both just having sex?
Please don't have anal sex just to keep him happy. In my opinion you are much to young for this man and I think you need to talk to someone about this as you have only just gotten out of your teenage years. Have you an older adult you can confide in? A friends parent or a teacher or guidance Councillor? I suggest that you talk to an adult.
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